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Advice Wanted How to get over unrequited love?

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cfa28
post Apr 11 2018, 06:52 PM

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I suppose you were friends with her for past 6 years. Tried to tell her or told her but she does not feel the same way but you decide to stick around and she allowed you.

Does it sum up your story.

If yes, welcome to the Friendzone..

As a former veteran of the Friendzone, I salute you for sticking around so long.

But I do hope she did not treat you like am ATM or doormat during these 6 years.

So this is what you need to do.

Take a step back and make evaluate your situation.

6 years in and still no progress... Do you really want to invest more time. If you want, it's your choice.

If you think you are never going to win the her heart then you need to gradually wean yourself from her.

Unfollow her from FB

Go and hang out with your other friends

Try some new things

If all else fails... Just burry yourself with work for next 6 mths and no contact at all with this girl.

Build your self confidence.

Woman do not want men with no self confidence or esteem.

Build your self confidence before trying to woo other girls.

This post has been edited by cfa28: Apr 11 2018, 06:54 PM
cfa28
post Apr 18 2018, 12:36 PM

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QUOTE(kissella @ Apr 18 2018, 09:55 AM)
reminds me of this one guy who’ve been loving me for years but I keep rejecting him bcs I wasn’t ready for a relationship. But now he has moved on & already has a gf. Somehow I regret it but what to do
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Are you guys still keeping in touch.

You never know

Just ask him out but don't sound too desperate.

 

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