QUOTE(Perspective2021 @ Feb 4 2022, 11:56 PM)
my dad also 6X, just quarreled with him yesterday...
he has some degree of alexithymia, make it very hard to communicate with him...
I feel very sad...
sorry for getting out of topic...
but isn't salary, ultimately, also for family? parents, wife, children...etc...
I always thought it is fine to save money first, then when my salary increased, I can treat him better.
I like most of the folks, save money buy house, buy car, thought need to have certain amount of salary only can live happily.
But actually, those things are not needed. I no need that amount of salary to make his life comfortable.
Now I hit my salary goal, but he is not here anymore.