Honestly if the guests are so fuckin cheap, they should do the right thing and decline to attend.

I mean, it takes 2 to tango.

Yes, getting married, people are normally ready to absorb the costs and besides the dinner, there is alcohol, photographers and lord knows what else.

But also, when you are invited, you fuckin better be able to pay market rate, or just decline to attend and fuck off to the side. I mean RM50 to RM100 is fine enough, but RM 10 ? Dafuq ?

Normally the wedding couple will record the amount of angpow given in the guest list so that can refer back how much angpow to give in return if the said person invite u to wedding. I think it is common courtesy la u attend ppl's wedding u help to chip in some money to cover ur own portion as a blessing to the married couple.

Handphone bill rm100-200 also u no problem pay every month, some ppl drink starbuck coffee every other day. But friend who is close enough to invite u to wedding u dont even want to chip in RM50 as a blessing? Tells a lot about ur personality leh. In the end the merrid couple will just take the wedding bill as a tuition fee to learn more about u.

calm down bro. Let me rephrase. No one is forcing u to pay, u can just give rm10 angpow no problem but know that u can't stop ppl from judging either. The wedding couple will in return give u more or less same kind of courtesy u showed. No big deal.

What i really don't get is ppl who give angpow rm10 damn paranoid scare ppl judge them, it's like ppl who choose to drive proton due to whatever the principle but die die want ppl to agree with them driving proton is super good only sohai drive foreign car.

Who told you must pay even if not attending?

My buddy i go= rm200 300
My buddy i no go = rm100 min
Orang masak i go= rm100
Orang masak i no go = rm 50( if tell early. If last  minute no  go i pay full rm100)
Orang tak masak i go= market rate
Orang tak masak i no go = no pay.