why are Chinese wedding so calculative? they wanna make a grand wedding but expect the guests to pay for it?

Look at Malay & Indians wedding. they NEVER expect ANYTHING from the guest, in fact the only thing they wish if for them to ATTEND the wedding to celebrate the joy of their new marriage.

U can see the mindset now right?

fyi, the Malays who made grand weddings REALLY CAN AFFORD IT not begging to guests with minimum amount set angpow to cover (and making profit if can).

how i know? my wedding is grand (in a 5 star hotel) and i do not expect anything from the guests. i've already set the budget to cover number of guests for the wedding and all i want is my close family and friends to come CELEBRATE MY GOD DAMN WEDDING with the love of my life.

if you are expecting to gain profit from your big day marrying your sweetheart, then you should ask yourself..why marry in the 1st place?

This post has been edited by Hanzo: Feb 6 2018, 11:56 AM