i think 2-3 years back when my sister getting married and i was calculating the money on groom side..there ppl giving only rm20 many of them but guess they living in kampung or some sort not earning too much money end up have to cover back couple thousand

i think chinese wedding been changing over the time

for chinese anything to congratulate or celebrating ang pao will be given but not the amount just take as wishing to another person

but over the years, then ppl is care more about the amount due to chinese want "face" so they usually order expensive food with the restaurant and come up from couple hundread to thousand a table

some not so rich and wanted "faces" then will hope guest will give some amount to help out by ordering expensive food per table , of course not many can earn from wedding dinner by it self...

but chinese now tend to forgot the true meaning of wedding, of course i know some are very rich and dont accept ang pao but the case is less

i got invited multiple times for friends wedding...of course i will give decent amount from RM80 to RM 100 for attending alone, coz we all know the drill ..i not rich or from rich family i will give base on my current financials

well as i say base on my current financial.... i gave RM80 that time i have no jobs and my bank left about RM2000 you expect me pay how much??

then you are rich forgot to tell you , i am not living with parent , lost job and also everything is supporting by that amount, rental, bills and food

maybe you can try to experience it, how you survive couple month with no income and see how much you pay then also have bank loan debt

This post has been edited by Amy09: Feb 6 2018, 11:08 AM

you say you can pay more then how much you pay?

nah not anymore just ppl like to talk big which annoys me ..already have financial crisis then say can fork out more, then i want to see how much crap he can talk about

This post has been edited by Amy09: Feb 6 2018, 11:12 AM

ya you are earning less dude i am earning NONE JOBLESS for couple months, know the damn different

try live 6 month with no income with RM 2k not earning 2k

need to pay rental , bills, expenses for 6 month, you do that please

how much you can fork out?? try to know on peoples shoes before you can talk big

This post has been edited by Amy09: Feb 6 2018, 11:19 AM

they know my situation so they are fine with it