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QUOTE(SomaCruz89 @ Jan 30 2018, 02:22 PM)
I have been dating this WeChat gal for about 1month and we have already started to do couple stuffs like hold hands, hugging and cuddling but for some reason she still see me as a closed friend.
Some background about this gal, she is 2 years younger than me and she just broke up last 4 months ago and I can see she hasn't really moved on yet.
So far I have dated her 4 times:
First date:
I went to her office area for dinner. Dinner on me.
Second date:
Due to her tight work schedule (even on weekend)we went out for 3 hours windows shopping and dinner. I held her waist and she didn't reject my advance but in return she held my arm as well. We ended the date with a goodbye hug. Dinner on her and she insisted to pay the bill instead of split the bill.
Third date:
Same with first date I went to her office area for dinner + dessert. I can sensed something not right already and during the dinner she shared all her ex-es stories and became very emotional and cried. It was quite an emotional night to be honest...and I consoled her and and bought her some desserts. Dinner + dessert on me.
Fourth date(Mostly on me except coffee on her):
This is a half day date consists of lunch, CNY clothes shopping, coffee, movie and dinner. By the way, the best date we have because we shop CNY clothes together n took wefies in fitting room, cuddle, hold hands and hug on couple seat during movie and she wasn't that emotional compare to third date. I ended the date with a kiss on her cheek but during the ending part she was quite emotional. And I reached home time, she texted me and asked why I treated her so good even though she's not my gf. She said during the movie she hugged n lean on me but the feeling wasn't there and keep apologized to me because she said I'm too good and she didn't want to hurt me or cheat on my feeling. I told her I'm okay and relationship starts as friend and takes time develop. Then, we went back to usual texting n flirting in WeChat.
Personally, I think she's still in recovery mode and not ready for a new relationship yet or this is so called friendzone?
Should I continue pursue her or slow down or move on?
Serious need advise here.
Update 31/01/18:
This morning we chat as usual and in the middle of conversation she offers a free facial treatment to me foc and I teased her by saying that later I fall deeply on her then how? Then, she said something like she won't ask for more and if she can just being a place slightly below my gf it's already too great for her. She said she feel very comfortable with me as a close friend and can share alot of things that she never to anyone else before not even her exes. Then, I asked her if she only see me as a close friend and she replies for now yes because we only knew each for not too long. Then I agreed that we only knew each for about 1 month and she responded by saying Happy Monthniversary.
So, what we can derive from this new development? Are she hinting me to confess and make it official or this is another situationship agenda? I never confess to her tho atleast not thru words.
Any advise sifus?
Some background about this gal, she is 2 years younger than me and she just broke up last 4 months ago and I can see she hasn't really moved on yet.
So far I have dated her 4 times:
First date:
I went to her office area for dinner. Dinner on me.
Second date:
Due to her tight work schedule (even on weekend)we went out for 3 hours windows shopping and dinner. I held her waist and she didn't reject my advance but in return she held my arm as well. We ended the date with a goodbye hug. Dinner on her and she insisted to pay the bill instead of split the bill.
Third date:
Same with first date I went to her office area for dinner + dessert. I can sensed something not right already and during the dinner she shared all her ex-es stories and became very emotional and cried. It was quite an emotional night to be honest...and I consoled her and and bought her some desserts. Dinner + dessert on me.
Fourth date(Mostly on me except coffee on her):
This is a half day date consists of lunch, CNY clothes shopping, coffee, movie and dinner. By the way, the best date we have because we shop CNY clothes together n took wefies in fitting room, cuddle, hold hands and hug on couple seat during movie and she wasn't that emotional compare to third date. I ended the date with a kiss on her cheek but during the ending part she was quite emotional. And I reached home time, she texted me and asked why I treated her so good even though she's not my gf. She said during the movie she hugged n lean on me but the feeling wasn't there and keep apologized to me because she said I'm too good and she didn't want to hurt me or cheat on my feeling. I told her I'm okay and relationship starts as friend and takes time develop. Then, we went back to usual texting n flirting in WeChat.
Personally, I think she's still in recovery mode and not ready for a new relationship yet or this is so called friendzone?
Should I continue pursue her or slow down or move on?
Serious need advise here.
Update 31/01/18:
This morning we chat as usual and in the middle of conversation she offers a free facial treatment to me foc and I teased her by saying that later I fall deeply on her then how? Then, she said something like she won't ask for more and if she can just being a place slightly below my gf it's already too great for her. She said she feel very comfortable with me as a close friend and can share alot of things that she never to anyone else before not even her exes. Then, I asked her if she only see me as a close friend and she replies for now yes because we only knew each for not too long. Then I agreed that we only knew each for about 1 month and she responded by saying Happy Monthniversary.
So, what we can derive from this new development? Are she hinting me to confess and make it official or this is another situationship agenda? I never confess to her tho atleast not thru words.
Any advise sifus?
you already have all the positive signs, what else can a man ask for?
like you say, she is in her recovery mode. give her some breather.
but then i felt that you overwhelm her as though as you are desperate. you need to slow down, prize is yours.
Jan 31 2018, 03:34 PM

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