I am in your shoe before this

she is using you but think this way, there is no right or wrong doing so but this is the time where u need to prove you are 100 times better than her ex. is like you use iPhone 7 and won't go back to iPhone 6 again ... if she don't fall for you maybe you are not better off than the ex ....

what I did in my current relationship is I slowly attack her ... so slow down is the right strategy now. Spend some time together and stop showing how desperate u want to be with her.

text her everyday and suddenly stop texting her for 1 day. is like drama, u watch everyday but suddenly 1 day no more drama she will feel anxious and text u back. then u know its worth pursuing.

she is hoping to jump ship ... maybe as she is repeating the process of texting someone but to the different person this time (u)... so u also have to prepare for the worst that she might be temporarily using you ...

example : iPhone 7 hilang, so temporarily use u, the iPhone 5

damn bro leave immediately !! stop investing any more money run now !!!!