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Advice Wanted maintain friendship after break-up
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TSabubin
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Dec 4 2017, 03:07 PM, updated 9y ago
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Do you guys think it is good idea or not to maintain as friends in good terms after the breakup?
I used to think it is no point because you don't want to be reminded about the bitterness of the relationship. However, maintaining friendship in some way feels like you can still talk to this person who used to know you very well. Including starting arguments of the past. Or maybe just keep a distance and not chat (whatsapp) so much after the breakup? And what if both party still love each other but still have to breakup due to irreconcilable issues?
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TSabubin
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Dec 4 2017, 04:26 PM
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What if there are no anger. Even though it's not mutual, there are not resentment so far. Maybe deep down, there are. But both party are mature and handle it without anger and hatred.
Would keep in contact makes it even harder to forget the other person? I feel like if you keep in touch and still chat as friend, you will not break away from the cycle. Hard to move on. Or easier?
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TSabubin
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Dec 4 2017, 04:44 PM
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QUOTE(lawsh @ Dec 4 2017, 04:36 PM) i would recommend AGAINST hanging out as good friends 1 on 1 e.g. watch movies, meals etc Seriously, why would a separated couple go for a 1 on 1 movie date? That is strange.
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TSabubin
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Dec 5 2017, 09:53 AM
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QUOTE(OcHaa @ Dec 5 2017, 08:49 AM) i did maintain it for about a year after broke up that way in between the period when horny can piap after 1 year found a gf, then break off contact OMG! That is so wrong.
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