QUOTE(abubin @ Dec 4 2017, 03:07 PM)
Do you guys think it is good idea or not to maintain as friends in good terms after the breakup?
I used to think it is no point because you don't want to be reminded about the bitterness of the relationship. However, maintaining friendship in some way feels like you can still talk to this person who used to know you very well. Including starting arguments of the past. Or maybe just keep a distance and not chat (whatsapp) so much after the breakup? And what if both party still love each other but still have to breakup due to irreconcilable issues?
I have 2 friends who broke up 20 years ago, now they both married and got their own kids. Even up till today, the guy not dare to attend the reunions because the girl still bitter at him for stealing her virginity.I used to think it is no point because you don't want to be reminded about the bitterness of the relationship. However, maintaining friendship in some way feels like you can still talk to this person who used to know you very well. Including starting arguments of the past. Or maybe just keep a distance and not chat (whatsapp) so much after the breakup? And what if both party still love each other but still have to breakup due to irreconcilable issues?