girl is correct. guy is a loser and coward

ppl already become his gf..he still keep so many secrets.

such guys usually makan outside and very good at keeping secrets.

so not worth the girl's time and effort.

if cannot trust ur partner, whether before or after merrid, then better get a dog.

sekian

lol

nope...no need declare balance sheet
but obviously the guy keeping secret from her
why the guy didnt tell her he's not working and rely on passive income? why need to put on a front that he works as something else?
and why didnt explain to the girl why when she ask?

remember, what TS stated shows that the girl asks this and that..and the guy just go, believe me and shut up..or walk...that's the perception i get..

no communication from the guy when the girl kept asking for info and sharing.

u cant get to know the other person better if he jst keeps quiet on everything

2 way communication needed in a relationship mang..doesnt matter whether ur rich or poor

tis ^

when ppl born with silver spoon..they will feel happy but end up /k jely buthurt giler

ok..then still sarahan girls guy...all girls like to be pampered

if during birthday, anniversaries also makan kopitiam Rm4.50 Laksa and Teh Ais Rm2.00...well..seriously.............

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 03:59 PM

easy to make such claim when one's single

true story

tis ^

girl gold digger end up children lead better lives..but guys only concern whether girl gold digger or not and skillful on bed or not...

girls usually think further ahead..dont want when baby sick need to go General Hospital and queue for 1 hour 45 mins and when children want toys can only buy guli let them play..


Added : know a fren from primary...poor as fuck. girl merrid him..their 1st 2 child dieded coz even when sick, says no need go hospital coz no money. but they ok aje though, no sad or anything..jst fuck and give birth again..now have another 2 kids liao....i guess this non-gold digger type is /k material? never strive for better future for children.. lol

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 04:21 PM

not kimsim ke? lol

yup..she have no right to it. but at least she dont have to worry their babies dont have enough money to buy pampers

or when go school can only eat half a meal during recess time

some girls are looking for live partner and good environment for her children.....

its disheartening when the mother bring her children out...and they wanna eat that hotdog bun that costs Rm2.80 but if top up another Rm1 then can get a bowl of noodle as complete meal for her children for the day....

aye....and usually u see those guys who criticisez girl as gold digger..they are mostly single guys

they havent realize the harsh truth of having a gf..needless to say of family

imagine if the girl is the only girl in the family....and the guy she's going to marry cant even afford proper meals..how are they gonna support their parents and parents-in-law?

6 adults in total...

and that s before they have their own babies

or the other way round..

u see lee ka sing grandson...milk powder import from NZ yo!

limpek guarantee u when the grandson grow up..he wont blame his mum for being gold digger..prolly gonna take good care of her since he dont have much else to worry about except his parent's health and wellbeing..

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 04:37 PM

i dont see which post of mine says we should live outside our means

hell i am a little lost of where ur post is going actually

disagree on the last one..good partners doesnt mean need to be good looking

everything else i am ok with though

hard to say in term of how children will look

but bolded part..totally

majority prefer beautiful, nice things..fact of live

tis ^

inb4 birthday & anniversary eat at kopitiam with RM5.50 curry mee and teh ais RM2.00...celebrate and blow candles at kopitiam yo!

no..coz he obviously didnt care whether she walks or not

if ur dotter looking for a rich guy so she can ensure her children lives comfortable, that wud be ur grandson, u wud really go against her?

and tell her, she better look for someone she really love even if she cant get proper 3 meals a day?

best dad award shud really go to u

obviously whatever's benefiting the guy TS purposely didnt mention in order to tip the scale of biasness

cant imagine got ppl kena baited

walao..seriously? ur dad never give money to your mother's parents? :

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 05:02 PM

when the world starts paying equal pay between the 2 gender for the same position
else dont talk about gender equality


wait a minute..i thought ur the one that says she better able to provide better service than FL?

My counter point is what if she really did but TS purposely leave it out just to gain sympathy/support from /k? Hell, for all we know she might have provided even more than that.. its 1 year mang..not 1 month..

u ask /k here how many have gf..most are foreveralonez..cant hardly get 1...needless to say for a girl to be with them for 1 yr...

that's serious sacrifice for a girl..since its not trade secret that the older wimminz get, the lesser their market value will be