Sorry i can't help it but think how 3 men can share her at same time.

Husband doesn't care about her anymore, i presume
So left the old lover and the newly on board mid age uncle admirer

How does TS look like?

If you don't love your husband anymore, just divorce him. Then choose one man to be with. Doesn't need to be married but be loyal to one.

You can change partner along the way if you found another man. But juggling 3 men at the same time is just a bad. You don't get respect from me.

This post has been edited by abubin: Oct 31 2017, 11:36 AM

divorce your husband already... it definitely set u both free. he probably out there having same issue with u.

Grass is always greener on the other side and people cherish you more because you are not theirs yet but once you are theirs, you will be neglected again.

It's either you put in effort to work in your marriage or you risk having it failed miserably. You cannot hope for a flower to bloom but only moss and weed, if you don't take care of it properly.

Go for a therapy and try everything to fix what you have now (ie the marriage), don't give up just like that. You'd be surprised what you can find out in a couples' therapy.

Sometimes, it's not that both of you don't love each other anymore. Just that both of you stopped professing it and somewhere along the way, both of you forgot that you are in love.

Both of you are so deep into the marriage that both of you think that your relationship is secured and need no work anymore. Maintaining a relationship before and after marriage IS the same and it requires the same effort, if not, more.

The reason why marriage fails so much is because one party took the other for granted thinking that "he/she will be at home waiting for me, where can he/she go when he/she is already married to me". Over confidence will kill the marriage without people even knowing.

When one is not reminded that they are loved, it is very easy to stray and be influenced. Surely the feel of having an "extra-marital" affair is all good, exciting and well but once it is committed, the vicious cycle continues.

Everyone crave for care and if one party stop showing and a new person comes up and portrays to you that quality, needless to say, almost instantly you will feel that you are in a bad marriage.

This post has been edited by shaniandras2787: Oct 31 2017, 11:44 AM

You are in a loveless marriage and in another fubu relationship with a married men that so happens want to spend just 1 days out of 7 in a week to be with you and kept you hidden and non committal for as long as possible. Definitely you need another companion.

Why not get another 5 more ? Clearly this is going no where.

Just divorce your husband and get a proper partner that provides you with the emotional and attention you required and dont take you as just another of their fling and excitement feel young again pill.

Try witholdings sex from those two married men for 3 months and let us know is the emotional and psychical compatibility is still there or not.

Consider an open relationship?

u need ur husband for the kids;

u need the old lover for lust;

u need young lover for?

Anybody can say anything here, at the end of the day, ppl here (or out there) don't care wadashit u did or who u r. So, live ur life. U wanna juggle 3 or 30 at the same time, go ahead.

Remind me of an Aletta ocean scene

u looks like u really like open relationship...pm me

3 men:
Husband: Not close to you. Will he care bout your relationship?
How old is your kids? Will your relationship affect them much? If so, you want to be a women 1st or mother 1st?
Older men: Does his wife & kids knows about you? Will them feel hurts?
Same age men: Does he knows you are married?

If all the parties are informed and decided to keep the relationship (whether openly or secretly), you can have all 3.
But of course, the morally right is choose only 1.

This is so sick. People nowadays tend to rationalize their wrongdoing. The distant relationship of you and your spouse doesn't give allowance for you to be deceitful and promiscuous.

Have 3 men in your lifetime = lesson learnt = experience

Having 3 men appear at the same time = poor self management = letting the men pulling you around.

Continuing in such situation = no self respect = giving bad examples to the kids

I am pretty confident that you should have a very interesting look/body shape....that's why so many option around you.
if you want all, and you can manage it. Do it. seem that is your wish.

Make sure you able to control it, else if everything burst, you might be the alone yourself.

Interesting advices from many.

as for me, still ongoing, monotonous relationship with husband, sexful relationship with the old man, eventful relationship with the same- age guy but without sex.
Both of them love me very much. so, am enjoying one day at a time.

Some of you asked me about my kids about how they perceive my going out with these people. Well, both are young adults, , and they told me that they want me to be happy, as i have sacrificed all my life , 20 years of my time solely focused for the family, so, they think i deserve happiness. i am thankful that they think this way for me, because it means that my kids love me. And all my sacrifices for them and my husband touched my kids....

Yes, I am considered beautiful for my age and i am blessed with that but with it , attracts other sets of problems as of now.

i go out with the other two men but i have to reassure the older guy that I am only best friends with the other same-age guy. jealousy prevailed

You are a greedy woman. You are not close with your husband but yet you still live with him without divorcing. You have an affair with older married lover and yet you think it's morally right. You have a mid age admirer and you yet you continue like you are still single but hey who am I to judge you?

Just that I had an elderly friend who recently contracted with AIDS. Get a quality rubber condom always yah......

Just to keep some perverts here hopes, dreams and fantasies alive, I present you guys a fantasy of TS appearance...........

Thanks for the imagination