I have been married twenty over years. my husband is not close to me. i have an older married lover, together happily for 4 years already, . and now I have a same age as me admirer who has declared his love for me. And this guy is also fantastic.

I want all of them. I am confused

You already answered it

Just be happy as you wish!

take all of them

Yes... I shall enjoy all three

What is there to confuse?

Am not trolling. i am facing this situation now. i have to let out my feelings to feel better.

Masuk Islam, you still have room for 1 more

To juggle 3 men....

u know there are kids surfing this forum. PM me if you are looking for 4th man.

4th man.... Deadly

Not sure if you are trolling. In 2015 you said you been together for 1 year. In 2017 you say 4 years. Doesn't add up.

If you aren't, I find you very appalling. To be able to act like nothing is wrong at home while doing these things behind your family's back. Do it properly. If you have lost feelings for your husband, ask for a divorce.

If I ever found out my mom did what you did I will cut her out of my life. Maybe doesn't matter to you but one day if you ever lose your kids, I hope u look back and think long and hard if its all worth it.

Ok... So about 3-4 years lah.... Got my numbers wrong but fact is there.
My kids sympatize my life they said...

when their mummy is lost and am drown in it, of course, they sympathize you.
no one say is wrong, you dictate your own life. but then you need 3 men for great sex yet, you couldn't find fulfillment in life.. now even i sympathize you.

I'm impressed. How did you find enough time to handle 3 guys?
Anyway, I always though for any adulterer, status quo is the best... who knows.

These guys knew each other?

hahahahahaha, after reading her post, i find it very funny yet I respect her for her choice to be willing to chase after her happiness. seriously, adults are no different than children, just the body size. In fact, as people age older, they tend to get even more childish(well, some not all).

at the end of the day, i realized malaysians, just like any other country citizens, are thirsty for love(which includes sex in a consensus way) but somehow they punish themselves by creating a lot of unnecessary "stereotypes" and "idealistic religious identity" which weighs them down and makes them become more fake and less authentic. This mentality will bring rise to a lot of sexual misconduct(through forceful rape and faking up identity to discriminate people that are not in the "mainstream normal way") due to depression of natural human behaviour as a result of the whatever idea that people created themselves.

At the end of the day, everyone is different in their own way. To judge people who are different from you and discriminate(act as if you are God), that's a highway to developing mental illness community.

Take my advice :

Enjoy it to the fullest, so you had no regret when you die in future.....

Arent ya a horny one

R u n ur husband still living together?
Why not divorce or at least live ur separate life?
Ask ur bfs to buy u a new house as a form of longer term investment, they get to enjoy more private time partying with u without engaging lodging service at the same time compensate ur depreciation of sex drive with appreciation of prop value, triple winning solution