Busy in work while boring in life will let people tend to become crazy a bit~~~Haha!!!!! Anyway, I really miss you all leh~~!!

But the sad thing is i dont have webcam wo....Just have a cheap mic

Wah WAh wah...really skyping ah? My voice not nice leh...I will feel paiseh oh..hahahhaa

I also very lazy to on skype...hahahaha

Emn, I am not ok...cause tonight is dumpling festival so have to spend time with family..think no time to online oh...

omg, what happened here? *run fast fast*

Aiks joshua,

If you cant find peace, then try to share it out here ya. We are always here for you Cheer up!!

@@""" help help!!!! SOS!!! Must call the doctor to heal all the LDR couples here. Suddenly in such a short time a lot of problems arise *faint*

Joshua, well, after reading your "story" here, I also dont know what to say. This is because sometimes I also did that to my bf (feeling regret now). Anyway, I can understand very well your doubtful feeling whether want to call her at that moment or not cause you scared that you might disturb her when she is in the midst of busyness as I was also facing the same problem with my last relationship. I think the only way you can show your caring is through sms, ecards or emails. The others depend on your gf whether she can feel that actually you very care about her.

About the way she talks to you i.e. fen kai, no yuan fen, no correct timing, she doesnt need you etc., gals tend to say things due to impulse (yi shi chong dong) without really considering the feeling of those who listen to those words (jiang zhe wu xin, ting zhe you yi). I admit that I also do so to my bf too. Well, I think you should point out that you are very unhappy when hearing those words NOT on that day itself but on other days when both are talking heart to heart. Trust me, it will work better when you choose to point out her mistakes on other day as she will realise that she has done a mistake and tried to change that bad habit. You must let her understand that you very care about her everything including each word that she said to you.

About the part you cant help her even she tells you her problems, you must let her know that actually if can, you really wish that you can help her to settle every problem but due to distance constraint, you just cant do it now. Tell her that you also feel miserable and helpless when you cant help her on the spot. Make your promise that you will try to be with her as soon as possible! Let her know that you really treasure her and you rather suffer just to make her happy. If she is mature enough, I believe that after she has heard about your assurance, she will know what to do and say.

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Added on June 22, 2007, 8:56 amlelong1234,

Since you have done your best to show your caring and concern to her, then just let her does her part. Try to mingle with your other friends and not contact her. If she really treasures you and the relationship, sooner or later she will contact you back (after realising her mistakes). But if she doesnt do anything after reading your e-card, maybe she is not the one for you. Why dont take this time to mix with other people while enjoying your life? I know love doesnt come easy but if the one that you love doesnt treasure you, why dont spread your love to someone who is more worth it?

Keep in your mind that the one who really loves you wont make you cry. Letting go someone who you love is his/her loss as you have done your very best! Cheer up ya!

This post has been edited by mandysu: Jun 22 2007, 08:56 AM

haha..do you all know why? This is because last time when some spammers come to spam here..all being scolded by the members in this post..hahahaha..Thus no one dares to come here spam again..hahaha

=.="""""" Not me la....i am those weak weak type..easy to get bullied kakakkakaka...

btw, jdreamer, when are you going to let us see your gf's pic ah?

This post has been edited by mandysu: Jun 22 2007, 12:15 PM

oh, is it if I show the pic of me and my bf..then you will show the pic of you and your gf?? Promise?

Wah, your gf is really weird Does she have any problem in Singapore? I think both of you should really discuss about this matter seriously. Or is she just kidding? But joking has also a limit...Really weird

=.=""" Since the very 1st day we decided to involve in a LDR, we already have the expectation that our loved one wont always beside us and doing things together like other normal couples.

Joshua, I think your gf is being playful and doesnt really mean what she has said. Like I said before, find a time and try to let her know of your feelings when she said those kind of things. But remember, discuss in a peaceful manner ok?

toottut89, well time will heal. Provided that you are willing to let it go and let the time does its magic. Trust me as I have been through this before too. Try to mingle around with your friends or fill your free time with activities so that there wont be extra time for you to think about her. Try to get busy with anything. I know the first stage sure very hard to encounter but just try your best ok.

spunkberry, wah, got new lover already huh? That's a great news! Good luck in everything ya!

lelong1234, you did a great job for your first step. Well, it takes time to heal. Just relax and remember my previous advices. I can understand your feeling when looking at other loving couples but why dont you look from other perspective? Next time when you see another loving couple, try to look beside you and tell yourself that you are not alone cause you have best friends with you too. Friendship is forever while relationship tends to fragile easily! Remember that k.

walao, want meh?? Really want to see the picture of both of us? Well, I will post up provided....

first, Joshua also post up photo of his gf with him
2nd, miyoko...too
3rd, jdreamer..dont expect that you can run away,hoho...you too!!
4th, spunkberry...you also no exceptance....

Then i will not reluctant to let you see my "zhen mian mu"..hahahaha!

This post has been edited by mandysu: Jun 23 2007, 06:59 PM

Actually this thread is open to anyone..doesnt really matter it is LDR or not..So KimRoss, you are always welcomed here!

yerrrr.....both of you really bad leh

Wah...congrats suiteng!!!!

chey, you also dont want to share your picture with me Spunkberry too

I'm also shy leh..i think my bf will kill me if he knows that i have posted up the pic of us in internet..haha

Wah, what happened here again? Lots of sad things happened here!!!

Lelong1234, dont call her anymore ok? It will bring more hurt to yourself only.

Joshua, every relationship will sure has its ups and downs. It just depends on how both of you look into the matter (whether both of you choose to face the problems together or either one chooses to run away from the problem). A stable and steady relationship is whereby it can struggle through all difficulties and both of you are still loving each other more than before. Dont give up and be strong