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kecik_mieow
post Sep 17 2017, 11:17 PM

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QUOTE(trewq @ Sep 17 2017, 11:10 PM)
Is it hard to find a wife that is willing to become full time housewife and cook at home nowadays?

basically is:
1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet
2) Cook, cuci pinggan
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances
4) Jaga child

Most girl i know don't even go to pasar and don't know how to pick fresh fish, don't even know how to differentiate fruits that is masak or not masak.
And some of the worse I have met is cuci pinggan also kelam kabut.

Gone are the days when female prepare food and wait husband come home?
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I can do all those above. But problem is generally salary so low, most guys cant afford to have their wife stay at home and not work no? Raising a child also not cheap.. tough la.
And kind of unfair to force woman to stay home and do house chores. Unless she wants to

This post has been edited by kecik_mieow: Sep 17 2017, 11:19 PM
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:28 PM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:24 PM)
marry rich guy la

who ask u marry a poor one
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Rich guys only date models and they got too many choices la.
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:34 PM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:30 PM)
u generalize too much lioa  laugh.gif
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K say ma ada wang ada amoi. So if Ada banyak wang ada banyak amois.. hahah. I dont know la, maybe there are good rich guy. Yet to find out. laugh.gif

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post Sep 17 2017, 11:49 PM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:36 PM)
/k will say anything so that they feel better  console.gif - remember this ,dear  console.gif

i see those rich guy in insta - their waifu all looks average oni lulx

u see those datuk - their waifu all average one lel

but dunno abt mistress etc la
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Hahah. It doesnt matter, its never my dream to marry rich man. Just hope to marry someone that loves me and I love.
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post Sep 18 2017, 12:07 AM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:59 PM)
but money is important

and no one should depend on anyone to take care of their own kids
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Not saying money is not important. I think my qualification should earn me okok salary. If the guy I marry is not a rich man, but have okok income. Should be able to raise kids. Why need to depends on another. If cant afford, just dont have kids or increase earning lo. Logic ma.. laugh.gif
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post Sep 18 2017, 12:21 AM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 18 2017, 12:15 AM)
take care =/= feed money la  yawn.gif  doh.gif

take care = care abt it physically and emotionally ,teach it ,cook for it ,change diapers etc
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Why u use it? Hhaha. Kids are not pets.
Lol.. cant expect too much lo. Not every girl would be able to find good guy who is also rich ma. doh.gif
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post Sep 18 2017, 11:23 AM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 18 2017, 12:37 AM)
laugh.gif

then dont gib birth la - later ppl torture / teach nonsense etc

lots of shitty case one

heard this fellow said his father hate him because he was fat after staying with grandma since small - grandma feed him like a pig

my ex classmate all no close with parents one - close with maid  laugh.gif

me rather work hard and open my own business to bring kids to work

rather than let those shit happen
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Then you should work harder and bring your kids to work next time and be a good parent.

QUOTE(DarkNite @ Sep 18 2017, 08:38 AM)
Already is k/ motto "ada ah wang, ada ah Moi, awek, concubines, mistress dan lain lain"

Got plenty of ah wang can for sure get "a very beautiful good housemaid"
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Ada wang ada amoi, ada banyak wang ada banyak amois.. lol.
Ts looking for highly qualified maid.

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post Sep 18 2017, 11:30 AM

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QUOTE(bereev @ Sep 18 2017, 09:20 AM)
house wife that always stay in house will easy develop more emotion problem and also they will be too sensitive trigger suspicious on many things , not to say they will be left out from the societies
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Have to agree to this. Housewife actually live quite miserably, their world is so small. After many years of staying at home, they dont know how the world is anymore. Very sad, limited interaction with outside ppl make them dumb also. They invest all the effort in her family, if anything happened to her family, husbad cheat, kids noy doing well in exam etc very likely for them to fall into depressions. Thats all they have in this life. So unhealthy.

QUOTE(Elgore @ Sep 18 2017, 09:21 AM)
yes
especially for those who are think they are entitled to a spouse that does all the house chores so they themselves dont have to do anything
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Modern day dy, man should share housechores too in addition to parenting. Or else, it will be likr our parents day, kids are only close to the mum. Dad just work outside, no interection with kids.
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post Sep 18 2017, 01:32 PM

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QUOTE(bereev @ Sep 18 2017, 11:38 AM)
this is why house wife very pitty easy to get scam by outsider , easy to get scam by religion things, or they will addict in gambling, every little bit of problem can trigger them become a big problem end up fight with husband
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Thats why. Man should not force their wife to stay at home unless they wish to be a stay at home mum. Fulltime housewives dont seem to be really happy.

Example, my neighbour doesnt like her mother in law, so whenever the m.i.l make some small comments, it will make her stress up and leads to arguements with the husband. Whole family was affected by her emotion. It is actually just a small issue, but for her, it is something big. In her life this is a big issue, thats because her world is small, revolves around this family mainly. Not healthy. They focus so much on such a small issue. Its better for women to have some sort of work, may not be fulltime work, some things to do, have her own time to mingle with outside ppl so they wont have so much time to focus on small stuff like that and indulge in negative stuff and becomes depress. And they dont have so much time to gossips with other housewife. Less problems. Hahah.

The world have so much to see and experience, dont cage your wife. Better for her to do something productive, part time business etc and let her achive her potential too. Too detached from society is really bad. Rather than her getting stuck at home or indulge in bad stuff like gambling. Unless taking care of children is an issue cannot be resolved, then wife usually will usually sacrifies to take care of children.

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post Sep 18 2017, 01:37 PM

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QUOTE(DarkNite @ Sep 18 2017, 01:18 PM)
The other day, I visited a client and see a "housewife" home school their 3 kids.
Their study room betul2 like international school - have projector board, 55 inch TV, wall charts and lots of books.
Eldest doing IB!
Very lucky husband & children. thumbup.gif
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Ur client's wife Not the typical housewife aka housemaid wash dishes, cook and cleaning all day long la. Never need to dress up cause nobody will see her and becomes auntie like.

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