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post Sep 17 2017, 11:10 PM, updated 9y ago

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Is it hard to find a wife that is willing to become full time housewife and cook at home nowadays?

basically is:
1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet
2) Cook, cuci pinggan
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances
4) Jaga child

Most girl i know don't even go to pasar and don't know how to pick fresh fish, don't even know how to differentiate fruits that is masak or not masak.
And some of the worse I have met is cuci pinggan also kelam kabut.

Gone are the days where wife prepare food and wait husband come home?

This post has been edited by trewq: Sep 17 2017, 11:13 PM
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:14 PM

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QUOTE(trewq @ Sep 17 2017, 11:10 PM)
Is it hard to find a wife that is willing to become full time housewife and cook at home nowadays?

basically is:
1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet
2) Cook, cuci pinggan
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances
4) Jaga child

Most girl i know don't even go to pasar and don't know how to pick fresh fish, don't even know how to differentiate fruits that is masak or not masak.
And some of the worse I have met is cuci pinggan also kelam kabut.

Gone are the days when female prepare food and wait husband come home?
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Harder? Yes
But still possible

But u can't marry a career woman and expect her to do all that

Thats impossible and irrational
monsteru
post Sep 17 2017, 11:16 PM

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You can still find traditional girls if you like those that just open their leg for you when you get home.

Then again at this age, it's more gentlemen to share the housework with your spouse.
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:17 PM

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QUOTE(trewq @ Sep 17 2017, 11:10 PM)
Is it hard to find a wife that is willing to become full time housewife and cook at home nowadays?

basically is:
1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet
2) Cook, cuci pinggan
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances
4) Jaga child

Most girl i know don't even go to pasar and don't know how to pick fresh fish, don't even know how to differentiate fruits that is masak or not masak.
And some of the worse I have met is cuci pinggan also kelam kabut.

Gone are the days when female prepare food and wait husband come home?
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I can do all those above. But problem is generally salary so low, most guys cant afford to have their wife stay at home and not work no? Raising a child also not cheap.. tough la.
And kind of unfair to force woman to stay home and do house chores. Unless she wants to

This post has been edited by kecik_mieow: Sep 17 2017, 11:19 PM
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:21 PM

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If she is a housewife then your list OK la. But if not, then you share your responsibility in all those things la. Anyway, finding a girl that does all that is possible.
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:28 PM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:24 PM)
marry rich guy la

who ask u marry a poor one
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Rich guys only date models and they got too many choices la.
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:34 PM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:30 PM)
u generalize too much lioa  laugh.gif
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K say ma ada wang ada amoi. So if Ada banyak wang ada banyak amois.. hahah. I dont know la, maybe there are good rich guy. Yet to find out. laugh.gif

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post Sep 17 2017, 11:35 PM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:23 PM)
got a lot career woman do that lulx
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Im not saying they cant

Im saying dont put that expectation

They can do what they want
But we shouldn't demand
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:35 PM

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For me, i aint gonna give up working to be stay at home mom.
The world now, it requires both to work incase either one kena jobless also, another can cover a bit.

If off work timing ok, still can cook what. Just divide task to make it quick like the guy do the chopping while the woman do the cooking. Both can do the washing together while talk about what happen on the day etc.
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:42 PM

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why not share the burden together.
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:49 PM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:36 PM)
/k will say anything so that they feel better  console.gif - remember this ,dear  console.gif

i see those rich guy in insta - their waifu all looks average oni lulx

u see those datuk - their waifu all average one lel

but dunno abt mistress etc la
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Hahah. It doesnt matter, its never my dream to marry rich man. Just hope to marry someone that loves me and I love.
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post Sep 17 2017, 11:49 PM

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post Sep 17 2017, 11:54 PM

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they still exists, I saw young couples go for morning grocery shopping at NSK.
the girls are not bad looking cry.gif made me so jelly.
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post Sep 18 2017, 12:04 AM

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all gals can cook!!! 2minutes...

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post Sep 18 2017, 12:04 AM

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post Sep 18 2017, 12:07 AM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:59 PM)
but money is important

and no one should depend on anyone to take care of their own kids
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Not saying money is not important. I think my qualification should earn me okok salary. If the guy I marry is not a rich man, but have okok income. Should be able to raise kids. Why need to depends on another. If cant afford, just dont have kids or increase earning lo. Logic ma.. laugh.gif
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post Sep 18 2017, 12:21 AM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 18 2017, 12:15 AM)
take care =/= feed money la  yawn.gif  doh.gif

take care = care abt it physically and emotionally ,teach it ,cook for it ,change diapers etc
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Why u use it? Hhaha. Kids are not pets.
Lol.. cant expect too much lo. Not every girl would be able to find good guy who is also rich ma. doh.gif
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post Sep 18 2017, 12:40 AM

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QUOTE(trewq @ Sep 17 2017, 11:10 PM)
Is it hard to find a wife that is willing to become full time housewife and cook at home nowadays?

basically is:
1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet
2) Cook, cuci pinggan
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances
4) Jaga child

Most girl i know don't even go to pasar and don't know how to pick fresh fish, don't even know how to differentiate fruits that is masak or not masak.
And some of the worse I have met is cuci pinggan also kelam kabut.

Gone are the days where wife prepare food and wait husband come home?
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1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet - This is husband responsibility to provide good shelter for family
2) Cook, cuci pinggan - This is husband responsibility to provide food for family
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances - This is husband responsibility to provide food for family
4) Jaga child - This one both jaga, but usually more to wife


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post Sep 18 2017, 12:41 AM

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have u married yet? or just kena reject dengan awek lawa ni.
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post Sep 18 2017, 08:34 AM

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QUOTE(hyorimeowmeow @ Sep 17 2017, 11:37 PM)
cant demand  laugh.gif

unless u are some kind of abuser  hmm.gif
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Definitely. Cannot demand

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