Is it hard to find a wife that is willing to become full time housewife and cook at home nowadays?

basically is:
1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet
2) Cook, cuci pinggan
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances
4) Jaga child

Most girl i know don't even go to pasar and don't know how to pick fresh fish, don't even know how to differentiate fruits that is masak or not masak.
And some of the worse I have met is cuci pinggan also kelam kabut.

Gone are the days where wife prepare food and wait husband come home?

This post has been edited by trewq: Sep 17 2017, 11:13 PM

Harder? Yes
But still possible

But u can't marry a career woman and expect her to do all that

Thats impossible and irrational

You can still find traditional girls if you like those that just open their leg for you when you get home.

Then again at this age, it's more gentlemen to share the housework with your spouse.

I can do all those above. But problem is generally salary so low, most guys cant afford to have their wife stay at home and not work no? Raising a child also not cheap.. tough la.
And kind of unfair to force woman to stay home and do house chores. Unless she wants to

This post has been edited by kecik_mieow: Sep 17 2017, 11:19 PM

If she is a housewife then your list OK la. But if not, then you share your responsibility in all those things la. Anyway, finding a girl that does all that is possible.

Rich guys only date models and they got too many choices la.

K say ma ada wang ada amoi. So if Ada banyak wang ada banyak amois.. hahah. I dont know la, maybe there are good rich guy. Yet to find out.

This post has been edited by kecik_mieow: Sep 17 2017, 11:35 PM

Im not saying they cant

Im saying dont put that expectation

They can do what they want
But we shouldn't demand

For me, i aint gonna give up working to be stay at home mom.
The world now, it requires both to work incase either one kena jobless also, another can cover a bit.

If off work timing ok, still can cook what. Just divide task to make it quick like the guy do the chopping while the woman do the cooking. Both can do the washing together while talk about what happen on the day etc.

why not share the burden together.

Hahah. It doesnt matter, its never my dream to marry rich man. Just hope to marry someone that loves me and I love.

Maid

they still exists, I saw young couples go for morning grocery shopping at NSK.
the girls are not bad looking made me so jelly.

all gals can cook!!! 2minutes...

I'm d luckiest man alive!

Not saying money is not important. I think my qualification should earn me okok salary. If the guy I marry is not a rich man, but have okok income. Should be able to raise kids. Why need to depends on another. If cant afford, just dont have kids or increase earning lo. Logic ma..

Why u use it? Hhaha. Kids are not pets.
Lol.. cant expect too much lo. Not every girl would be able to find good guy who is also rich ma.

1) House cleaning include sweep and mop floor, cuci toilet - This is husband responsibility to provide good shelter for family
2) Cook, cuci pinggan - This is husband responsibility to provide food for family
3) Go pasar buy sayur and supermarket buy household appliances - This is husband responsibility to provide food for family
4) Jaga child - This one both jaga, but usually more to wife

have u married yet? or just kena reject dengan awek lawa ni.

Definitely. Cannot demand

Already is k/ motto "ada ah wang, ada ah Moi, awek, concubines, mistress dan lain lain"

Got plenty of ah wang can for sure get "a very beautiful good housemaid"

kalau empat empat tu ts nak suruh bini buat memang kena tampar la.

tolong la bini sikit.

Lol, beta husband spotted

Harder to find than one who sucks and swallows.

I once argue with my colleague on this issue.

its a shame women don't know how to cook.

then she said they can learn cooked after married which for me why after not before.

like u want ur husband become ur test dish experiment. then again she said love will take care everything.

for me cooking and house keeping its a habit. u need to learn and do it from the start.

not just after u got married. bcoz i can sure u..u can't do it. after the whole day at works.

Seriously no nd to be so calculative lo

Any form of relationship requires effort from both sides
Help each other out = helping urself also wat

yes
especially for those who are think they are entitled to a spouse that does all the house chores so they themselves dont have to do anything

all the things u said, if in husband and wife relationship, u are the one need to do all.. wife only need to makeup and entertain u..
if u are looking to those criteria, better off with maid

What a great way to start a day. With another gender war thread.

as long as hngggh, can cook or not, not a big problem. that one can hire maid to do it.

can. just marry your maid

Then you should work harder and bring your kids to work next time and be a good parent.

Ada wang ada amoi, ada banyak wang ada banyak amois.. lol.
Ts looking for highly qualified maid.

This post has been edited by kecik_mieow: Sep 18 2017, 11:24 AM

Have to agree to this. Housewife actually live quite miserably, their world is so small. After many years of staying at home, they dont know how the world is anymore. Very sad, limited interaction with outside ppl make them dumb also. They invest all the effort in her family, if anything happened to her family, husbad cheat, kids noy doing well in exam etc very likely for them to fall into depressions. Thats all they have in this life. So unhealthy.

Modern day dy, man should share housechores too in addition to parenting. Or else, it will be likr our parents day, kids are only close to the mum. Dad just work outside, no interection with kids.

you find wife with 20K income you stay at home to do the work la.

unless who ever has less income stay at home to do lo.

do together la housework, dun expect wife to everything for you

The other day, I visited a client and see a "housewife" home school their 3 kids.
Their study room betul2 like international school - have projector board, 55 inch TV, wall charts and lots of books.
Eldest doing IB!
Very lucky husband & children.

sounds like wishlist for live in maid.. go get the maid..

Thats why. Man should not force their wife to stay at home unless they wish to be a stay at home mum. Fulltime housewives dont seem to be really happy.

Example, my neighbour doesnt like her mother in law, so whenever the m.i.l make some small comments, it will make her stress up and leads to arguements with the husband. Whole family was affected by her emotion. It is actually just a small issue, but for her, it is something big. In her life this is a big issue, thats because her world is small, revolves around this family mainly. Not healthy. They focus so much on such a small issue. Its better for women to have some sort of work, may not be fulltime work, some things to do, have her own time to mingle with outside ppl so they wont have so much time to focus on small stuff like that and indulge in negative stuff and becomes depress. And they dont have so much time to gossips with other housewife. Less problems. Hahah.

The world have so much to see and experience, dont cage your wife. Better for her to do something productive, part time business etc and let her achive her potential too. Too detached from society is really bad. Rather than her getting stuck at home or indulge in bad stuff like gambling. Unless taking care of children is an issue cannot be resolved, then wife usually will usually sacrifies to take care of children.

Ur client's wife Not the typical housewife aka housemaid wash dishes, cook and cleaning all day long la. Never need to dress up cause nobody will see her and becomes auntie like.

Still can find why not. But now what era wor, not your parents zaman la.
Her parents pay for her education so much got a degree and end up at home jaga anak meh.

Guys will ask for girls must have at least degree la, educated la....and want them to be housewife
You find Vietnam wife better la.

My requirement is much more lower than yours, i'm willing to do all 4 sharing the tasks with my partner, but yet i'm not able to get a gf who willing to cook .

yes if im able to afford everything in the house while my wife duduk rumah and watch korean drama.