If you didn't lock the door and thief broke into your house, both you and the thief are to be blamed. If you lock the door but the thief still broke in, only the thief is to be blamed.

If you flaunt the beg, both you and the rempit are to be blamed. If you held the beg tightly, but the rempit went and pukul you before taking your beg, then the thief is to be blamed. You read what I write properly or not?

It's called minimizing the risk (not to be confused with 0 risk). It's easier to do something for yourself instead of getting others to do something for you.

Because in your cousin area (and maybe in some countries like Japan), the risk for break-ins are much-much lower. You think everywhere is USA or Japan?

Of course it's not ok. But do you think the thief will agree with you?

Of course that's what almost everyone was taught, that ppl should not take what is not theirs. But it's very naive to think that everyone who was taught that will always follow it. You can say if everyone is well-educated, maybe risk for crime like this will be smaller. But that time haven't come yet, so in the mean time you have to do what you can to minimize the risk on yourself.

Yes must start with yourselves. But I tell you this, if I don't steal, it does not mean everyone else will not steal too. That does not mean stealing is permitted. You want to lead, but not everyone will follow your lead.

I don't encourage the bad behavior. What I'm encouraging is, being wise. During BAKUT competition, did the organizer put some staff to monitor the event? That's what we called minimizing risk. Going by your logic, putting the staff there means stealing the model kits was encouraged. Well, of course no, it's to discourage people from doing that instead.

I never ever justify what the rapists did. It's just pointed some people are very naive about the world. Minimizing risk is actually a very sound advice.

Kind-hearted can be naive, if you want to know.

People should be smart and kind-hearted too. Do you think everyone who are kind-hearted are idiots?

You can be kind-hearted, but of course not until you let people trampled over you (this is part where I said not everyone will be kind to you). Minimizing risk does not mean you should be cruel.