Apr 5 2007, 03:42 PM
QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 1 2007, 02:11 PM)
UPDATE:
Okay, so it turns out that my friend had been going through her bf's msn chat histories and found out some stuff that she probably wasn't supposed to find out.
Okay, so it turns out that my friend had been going through her bf's msn chat histories and found out some stuff that she probably wasn't supposed to find out.
Wooo..men hates that, it somehow reflect the lack of trust or loyalty on his part. What if he is sincere in their relationship and the fling was just as lots of guys at his age does, nothing more. He's 20. Expect the unexpected.
Pre-marriage relationship aren't binding. She doesn't own him neither is he. Don't expect anything more out of it like married couple does. Neither party has the right to do so.
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Now here's the thing...she knows she was wrong for invading his privacy but she wants to know why he couldn't be more honest with her. I personally think that there's no such thing as complete honesty in a relationship...but she's in a really bad shape right now...
Notwithstanding the said event, what led her to to believe that he is untrusted and honest? If she really believe that this relationship requires undivided trust and honesty and somehow it was impossible under current circumstances, than back out. She should make the decision to end. Not him. By asking him to make the decision, she is expecting the relationship to continue, and there's no guarantee that it wont happen again.
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