I have been going out with this guy since last month. We had fun and watched movie and he was an amazing guy with decent job and a gentleman. After going out for a few dates with him, I started to notice that he has no fat in his body. We cuddled last night (no sex, just cuddle) and it was like cuddling a piece of plywood I like him but I think I want my boyfriend or a future husband to at least have some fat in his body. Is this a dealbreaker for me? Should I stop going out with him?

I am 27 year old and will be 28 by the end of this year. I am not pressured to get married. I am only looking for someone who I can date for maybe 1 or 2 years before we decide to get engaged. So that's why I am just wondering whether this is just a dealbreaker to me and I should try with someone else

This post has been edited by pixie1989: Jan 10 2017, 07:00 PM

believe me..most guys..after they got a gf..they will get fat..

if your username does indeed indicate your birth year, which mean you would be 28 years old by now. as a 28 year old lady, have you reread your own sentences that you wrote here and stop to wonder whether it makes any sense for a 28 year old to set this as one of the criteria you are looking for in a boyfriend?

paktor paktor hunt food then will fat la, I'm slim last time due to sports and high metabolism, now otw to dadbod lol, seldom gym also, got time also with gf riao

LOL. You want to break up with him because he is too skinny? Girls here will drool over him so please dont TwT

Well, start feeding him carbs and fats and he will become Rosm- body size in no time.

LOL....................................

Totally agree

He deserves a better girl, a girl that doesn't complain useless stuffs like this.

No offense, but somethings gotta be said.

Nuff' said.

This post has been edited by xperiaDROID: Jan 10 2017, 09:04 PM

Plywood.

Next time he become a father and become fat, u will complain him being a porkchop.

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This post has been edited by lil_flank: Jan 10 2017, 09:16 PM

You need to blow him with his stick

Im sure when he gain some weight, u ll be opening another tered here whinning

future husband? do u think our country will legalize same sex marriage?

6767...穿包了

Imagine what your bf must be thinking in his mind ; "Why is she so chubby and fat"


Just be happy with how a guy looks la, no need to be so fussy as if your body is like a cushion

just one month only. after u paktor for another 6 months then you will see the body fat, and it may not stop appearing, so don't open another topic to complaint again at that time.

wanna get fat very easy one la...you feed him more la

Apa ni some complain guy fat...now skinny also cannot

Apa lu mau lagi?

She wants intimacy

Later after getting married he has belly u want that to disappear also impossible already.

If you judge him by his figure I wonder if he should judge you by your figure as well?

And more fat after married. hahaha

If you want him to have fat, then eat more with him.... you order a lot cannot finish, he will sapu all......

This... never believe it earlier... and now became reality T.T

Grew from 72kg to now 95kg after in a relationship for 4 years >.<!

This post has been edited by flyyy9501: Jan 11 2017, 09:16 AM

What if the guy is skinny but very funny

funnybone got single girl here but you need to put on some weight

To TS, you can impose any criteria that you want.

You choose people - people also choose you.

But I know a few girls when we were in our 20s..

Very choosy and quite pretty...

But now already in 40s.... And still single

Hmmm... What's wrong with skinny guys. Most guys will gain weight after getting a gf/marry. Not a good reason to leave him.

seriously? do u even have feelings for him?

and u asking other ppl about ur dealbreaker? i tot dealbreakers are individual preference?

Appetite come when love arrive....

and here a chubby guy like me foreveralone while another girl complaining bf too skinny...apa lagi u wimminz wan la

u are so wrong young lady....

everyone have their weakness. It just if you can accept it or not. For me skinny is not an incapability or healthy issue related. So don't be silly and give everyone a big question mark on their head!

You like him is not because of his physical, appearance but is overall, the person as he is

TS, u have C cup boobs and a tight, round ass?

Else, u have no right to complain.

cook for him and feed him. Problem Solved!

Pipu prefer fat guys these days.
Too skinny how to cuddle sia.

If you do not have a mirror, pee in a silver baking pan and look into it. Ask that reflection, with your current mindset and attitude, do you deserve him. I am sure the reflection will say, HELL NO!!!

Leave that guy alone. He doesn't deserve a fat meat like you.

In his mind, his thinking my girlfriend is an airport, everytime cuddle only bones, no squishy bouncy bewbs. Maybe its a dealbreaker for me to date others since I have a decent job and a gentleman, ontop of having a good bodyshape.

See, that's the problem. You didn't experience the piece of wood that *REALLY* matters.

If you did, you probably wouldn't be whining on LYN.

err...i think u need a piece of pork chop to hug....

Where is the single girl? My criteria is very low, as long as 100% woman

You haven't see his playwood down there yet, senak!

TS is the single girl cos she is gonna dump her current bf for being too skinny

only you yourself can decide if it is a dealbreaker, and i will respect your decision if you are 100% certain and know yourself that is something you cannot tahan [i know a few friends who also have special requirements like teeth need to be straight otherwise they really just cannot]. its better to let him know early than next time escalate into a more major problem especially after marriage.

but one thing you might want to consider is which is more within your control before making your decision. Such as between : -

Finding a guy with amazing character and i assume also very ngam with you, which is what you already have now. If you are going to find another guy, are you certain he can uphold such standards? Can you right now count the number of other guys you know who the character is just as amazing and have decent income to support you, plus also interested in you? At adult age another person's character is pretty much something out of your control, so can say forget it if you hope to change another guy to be like him .

Or

You stick with him, and with discussion and consent to work this issue out, find some healthy diet plan to help him gain weight and work this out together.

both choices will have pros and cons to live with, decide wisely

Dear TS, dont complain if your guy is too skinny now.. im also used to be skinny for my height way 10 years back.. My GF(wife now) also said she didnt felt secure going to someplaces with me although i did tell her i have black belt in taekwondo.. Fast forward to present days,im currently 30kgs heavier that what i were 10 years before and now she said belly a lil big now..ask me to loose about 5kg..

If he's skinny,u can try to buff him up with food.. And does your feelings revolve in him being too skinny or the way you felt when he's being by your side.

+1

no worry, once you with him , he sure will get fat. Like my sister, she dated a guy about 2 years, his bf weight from 50kg to 75kg now. my sister always complaint about his bf to skinny before, now calling him Fat baby lol.

skinny guy here, cried a little bit.

dupe thread is really dupe thread..... so many kena triggered