I dunno why i am feeling depressed. Most of my friends just ignore me and dont tell me where they are going or going to do whenever i am with them. Recently, i hurt myself and could not move. I am staying alone in my apartment and asked in the group whether they have some medicine that i could use. None of them replied and even when i called them they didnt bother to ask what happened to me. They just said they dont have and hung up the phone. So i called my parents and asked them what traditional medicine or substance to apply. And now i am recovering and yet none of them called to ask about my condition. I have realised they will be nice to me when they need something from me. This is depressing and i seriously dont know how to handle this anymore. Sometimes i think i should just go away from everyone and never come back ever again. Even though, i have been experiencing these kind of situations in the past, i think i cannot handle it anymore.

this is serious /k...
my advice is go call befrienders
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on another serious note.... if that dp is really u... im depressed..

ok thanks
no that is not me in the dp

Since this is one sided story, I cannot judge what is going wrong right here...

Most of the it is caused by:
1. You have problem dealing with people.
2. Your so called friends is not worth your time, move on and seek for new friends.

what my other friend told me is that i am of a different religion and a different race, a minority here, that is probably why they dont like me

Treat others on how you want to be treated. Make the first step by starting to show concern to others.

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The above is what others say but my case is the same as yours. Thankfully, I have gone through the down period & the me today mostly just don't give a damn anymore. I no longer participate in any of friend gathering, meet up, group, chit chat, wedding invitation. I just mind of own business, do whatever I feel like doing & I expect nothing from people around me. I feel lot better that way. If my friend come to me and ask for something, I give. They call I asnwer, they text I reply. But that's about it. You'll feel miserable if you expect something from them.

How old are you? Sometimes we just need to learn to let go. If you can afford 10 minutes a day, meditation can help a lot in preventing depression.

There is a lot of things in life beyond our control and we should focus on what we can control instead of stressing over everything else.

What medication are you taking now? Please consider 5HTP.

If you want someone to talk to, you can pm me.

Ppl who differentiate others by race and religion like that aren't even worth befriending.
Just be yourself and find other friends. you can even look in FB, lots of groups like video gamers, football fans etc.
get those that accept you as yourself.

u're the guy with a brother that chinese aunties call dirty and disgusting cos of your race and skin colour rite? i saw your post in the past.

Sincerely hope that you will be getting well soon mate.
Do you have some hobbies to occupy yourself with?

You have to learn to love yourself

I understand how you feel. Alot people say they are depressed but some of them are actually not. My advice to you is to seek for professional help or organization that help ppl with depression. Me myself was depressed for a long time and i understand you cant shrug off depression just like that. Its a long battle to be fought

I am not taking any medication. I just walk around the park to release my stress these days

I think u have mistaken me for that person but I am not that guy btw

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This post has been edited by Diamondhead: Mar 30 2023, 06:56 PM

Wake up. Those are not your friends.

Go find friends.

strongly suggest u to make up some time to set an appointment with doc (you could try HUKM) and get yourself treated first. u might get some medicine to control your brain activites and few counceling session.

it might be better to fix problem inside you before attempt to fix things within your surrounding.

That's cool mate. Go to parks with lots of trees, take a deep breath and out. Soothing experience I'd say.

Experience nature and