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Malay wedding angpow how much to give?
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 Oct 10 2016, 12:58 AM
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Oct 10 2016, 01:02 AM
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Believe it or not, my Friend gave a bar of soap in an envelope.
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Oct 10 2016, 01:08 AM
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QUOTE(hellokitten @ Oct 10 2016, 12:05 AM) So my Malay friend (i supper with him at least once a month) since the past .. say 10 years... finally getting married at 37 y.o . He memang lone ranger and otaku type... finally managed to find a nice girl that suits him and finally settle down.. his first GF... before that all the while only jackoff to porn online only la. Malay don't take their sampul and note, whose who sampul it is.. Basically, they're fine with any amount less than than rm50.So if i solo go to his wedding and give RM388 angpow for his wedding ok ka ... since quite close la.. Or is it too little? Don't wanna be so cheapo cos i know he's gonna be quite tight as he's moving out of his house after purchasing a RM800K property.  If you're really his close, SERIOUSLY NAMED your sampul, inside or outside. I'd say better higher than rm300. Yea, you know how deserted we are after wedding  |
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Oct 10 2016, 01:14 AM
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RM50 sudah + what kind of kenduri they do ? some didn't accept money or prize btw , just go and eat only .
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Oct 10 2016, 01:20 AM
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Oct 10 2016, 01:37 AM
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Normal $10 - $20 if alone.
Close friend / subordinate / relatives $50 Immediate family member >$100 - $1k Malay wedding no money also they don't care and they don't keep track who gives. They just want you to eat & celebrate the occasion |
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Oct 10 2016, 02:02 AM
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QUOTE(Anwark @ Oct 10 2016, 01:58 AM) This is so true. Malays dont care much about money because they already happy celebrate the wedding and give their guest eating food and drink. But we as a guest also want to give money to them because we also very happy they happy wedding. |
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Oct 10 2016, 02:41 AM
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As long as u come..he'll be happy to have you..more than angpow
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Oct 10 2016, 03:26 AM
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155 posts Joined: Sep 2012
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malay angpow RM0 pon bole, but usually RM20-50
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Oct 10 2016, 03:47 AM
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Better give household items la. More appreciated like that. Something simple like kitchen items, rice cooker, electric fan, chair, etc. Make sure not too big the present if not you make other people that give present feel kecik hati.
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Oct 10 2016, 04:10 AM
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Make sure u give to ur friend not his parents
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Oct 10 2016, 04:38 AM
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Malay not really care la, as long you datang his kenduri, he already cukurr la
RM20 already enough since u his kawan |
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Oct 10 2016, 05:51 AM
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Lagi banyak lagi baguih
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Oct 10 2016, 12:48 PM
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i normally sponsor one table at a good friends wedding. no matter the cost.
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Oct 10 2016, 12:54 PM
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datang je bagi support
make sure u datang dengan waifu, lagi syiok |
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Oct 10 2016, 12:54 PM
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QUOTE(Sha91 @ Oct 10 2016, 12:42 AM) Close Friend - RM 50/RM 100. This.. 50/100 already enough..mind you,if the ceremony is done at home,per head catering is about rm10-15 only.. IF the venue is high keras one,give lah 100..Orang kaya (close friend), RM 200, RM 300 and above or you sponsor door gifts or cake or one meal ka. |
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Oct 10 2016, 12:54 PM
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QUOTE(magnesium @ Oct 10 2016, 04:10 AM) Make sure u give to ur friend not his parents This. Normally if u handover the money to his parents it will be theirs. Unless u give it directly to him, he wont get it. But this is among my friends and family la. Other ppl families may be different. |
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Oct 10 2016, 12:57 PM
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Closed friends you give ka pinggan mangkuk atau toaster or etc...
Normal friend below rm50 enuf Random ppl rm0-rm10 enuf |
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Oct 10 2016, 12:59 PM
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QUOTE(aius026 @ Oct 10 2016, 12:54 PM) This. Normally if u handover the money to his parents it will be theirs. Unless u give it directly to him, he wont get it. Pity wei your friends and family... Most malay just give to the parents la... If not poket pengantin penuh duit and jatuh sini sana... They need to concentrate on layan ppl and ambil gambar sumore... Moat of the time parents just handover the money to pengantin when finish.But this is among my friends and family la. Other ppl families may be different. |
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Oct 10 2016, 01:00 PM
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1,603 posts Joined: Jun 2005 From: Seremban-Wangsa Maju
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actually for malay, no need angpau wan... need your blessing only,, as long you turn up, that's good enough..
i didn't give anpau, i became my malay colleague pengapit instead =D |
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