QUOTE(madmoz @ Aug 24 2016, 09:53 PM)
Couldn't quite read your tone, methinks you are being sarcastic but still...
Don't get me wrong, I don't miss having a car, in fact I can afford to get a decent set of wheels here if I so choose but I see no reason to, and I'm not exactly holding back on spending $ either. I am renting my own little shoebox until I get my PR though, unless if they suddenly lessen the ABSD. Paying rent kinda sucks.
Actually I think I'm living more comfortably here than in KL, but I do miss the wife a fair bit. She flies here almost every fortnight and I fly too fly back almost as frequently. I am essentially earning almost three times what I get in Malaysia, and being able to bank in at least 1/2 of that every month does wonders for one's ego.
Bottom line is, if anyone can negotiate a decent pay package, I'd say mari mari sama sama jadi 'foreign trash'

Lots of things to learn and opportunities to pursue, and the pay is good.
Edit: But goddamnit I do miss space!!! Apartments here are freaking tiny unless if you are super loaded and can afford some super atas abode.
i was being partially sarcastic, but nonetheless pointing out the truth?
Think i spent few years to experience things here. Being fairly managable on my income as a single young man. I dont holdback on foods, ciggy 1 pack 2days, maybe party once twice a month, go back kl enjoy the weekends sometimes. But grew older now lol. Truth is, it feels EMPTY and boring after a while. Stuck in shoebox rooms that doesnt even belong to me from different owners, lack of freedom driving my beloved car around.. taking the bus to work (at least this is the best point that i dont spend 2 hours of traffic a day). and worse lining up on edible foods (dont expect me to fine dine all the time. The usual mode of lunch and dinner are still hdb foods lol). and... i guess the composition? In my line of work itself only 25% sgpreans? the rest are typical whites, usa brits french indias prc pinoy myamar all sorts of rojak. The longer it is, instinctively i dont feel 'homely'. People i know come and go. All for money and fly by. Locals SG half of them sour grapes of some msian chinese who takes better position, stuffs like that of course they wouldnt tell that to your face. And there you have all these bright 3rd world mens who fights so hard to start life in SG.
Tbh, i dont really care apart from the $ thats it. But i feel bad for the locals.. as well as our countrymen who crosses the border daily.
-disclaimer: just my personal 2cents that is based on my lowly <10k income life and not reflecting any others who may find otherwise

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