QUOTE(zephyrus9999 @ Aug 25 2016, 12:15 PM)
personally i think friends are not everything. my best buddies here are french since i face them everyday, badminton / drinking / party buddies are locals, talk cock whining buddies are msians and prcs, ocassional drinking with aussies and brits. heck got even so tired walking around till bored of it. i think the value of childhood friendship means more to me. thats why i cant figure out how some who emigrate to places like aus & uk, will 360deg adapt to the social circle there?. Long run, end up chinese mix chinese also. Some will be dog tail wagging wannabe whites, but I have and know my roots and tend to enjoy the malaysian life despite how fuked our country is to an extent. Justifiable from a perspective of better living? Well just a matter of time before you miss the roadside nasi kukus nasi lemak, goreng pisang, 'challenging' environment, variety of sights, stuffs like that. well at least to me SG is culturally diverse from the outside, but no depth at all. just walk around and see how superficial everyone is. chasing time, chasing money, chasing careers, double faces in work, ultimately you feel the sense of emptiness. the infrastructure, development yes are 5stars but its more like catered from the foreigners success. like what locals telling me it feels like being caged, espcially when expats (bunch of them!) easily making >15k + condo allowances + good car vs them confined in small rooms and smelling mrt armpits everyday. opps, a little off topic

first off, i nvr said anything abt forgetting ur roots.
i just gave a solution for the part where everyone complains of being lonely and having no friends which is very much in your own hands.
u are at a new place....u can either continue complaining and be miserable or try to make some changes and make your stay a bit more comfortable.
it may or may not work out in the making friends part....but if u do not try, u will definitely continue being miserable.
for the other factors, different approaches based on individuals.
for example, generally, most of us will say the food here sucks
for me, i eat to live and my favorite food is mcd anyway, so tat is nothing to me
for my wife, she lives to eat, so she goes by the thinking of " if u dun nitpick, it is still edible" then once a while pay the premium for those food you like which tastes like back home