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 Are you insecure when dating a female doctor?, Guys, please answer me. Like really?

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n00b13
post Jun 8 2016, 02:25 PM

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QUOTE(alexsukri @ Jun 8 2016, 11:06 AM)
DISCLAIMER: I started this thread looking for guys' opinions. Nothing more than that
rolleyes.gif Why are you even asking this?

Let me ask you, are you considering changing your career? If you're so sure that you being a doctor is turning guys off, are you going to change that about yourself? Switch to a less "threatening" line of work, like secretary or nurse?

If you're not going to do that - as I'm sure you're not - why would you even care about people who don't like you being a doctor?

The way I see it, there are 3 possibilities here: 1) your "multiple dates" are probably just 1 or 2 guys, which is understandably depressing but clearly an overreaction on your part, 2) it's a lot more than 1 or 2, which is really depressing but again, hardly a representative sample, or 3) you're mistaken about the fact that they don't like you being a doctor, and it's something else that's turning them off or spoiling the date.

And from all your posts and the threads you've started, you seem to be having self-esteem issues from your breakup. Which is perfectly understandable - and what's understandable also is that these issues are affecting your perception.

Because there's also possibility no. 4) these guys aren't turned off at all, you're the one who's uninterested in them, and in fact they've been messaging you for a 2nd date. Have they? biggrin.gif



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post Jun 16 2016, 12:54 PM

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QUOTE(cakes&cream @ Jun 15 2016, 11:33 PM)
As I read on, I discover more and more butthurt replies. Why? Your 2" worth of ego felt challenged ka? Lel
Men's egos are always so fragile laugh.gif



 

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