sorry about my earlier posts on your other tered, i really thought you were a guy (your ID kan alexsukri lol).

short answer, yes very.
many self-confidence hancur when they feel (perceived) they aren't compatible with you in terms of emotion, intelligence and lastly your career choice.

further point. my observation. enggang sama enggang pipit sama pipit really applies for your case (i know it's ridiculous) but that's what traditional families (whatever race) believe in such situation. family preference plays a role too, and hence maybe the reason why these "ego" guys opt out on top of their own frail confidence. but there are those who don't mind la, kena ejek ma kena ejek lo hahaha. like my buddy whose fiance is a doc. muka selamba when teased hahahaha. but he does get pissed off sometimes.

it will bother you again. but maybe try a different approach.

This post has been edited by hotjake: Jun 8 2016, 02:45 PM

let me guess u work in HSB?

this is true for HO(houseman)

u're liberal? have you tried Briggs Miers Personality Test?
mind telling? i wanna understand what kind of doctor you are, so i can hook you up with another doctor