I do agreed with BlackB.

Let me tell you a true story.
I have a friend who is a doctor.
He is single and after working hours he is free. He would ask us to go watch movies with him even until mid night.
I ask him if he want to go visiting with my during festive season.
He say he would go anywhere.
The last house, I say is a poor single lady living in a wooden house.
He say no lah, he is busy


Each of us is born different.

I think that sometimes it all comes down to u.