Guys nowaday feel insure. Thats why alot of single bachelor. They will prefer to hang out with same catagory (barchelor also). They will scare or feel worry to meet girls with higher education or higher salary than them (judge in base on occupation). Just like my relative (still single). No matter how many o girls i introduce to him he also feel insecure. He just try to work more to avoid dating. He has excuse of alot of workload so can not dating. He is now in 40++. Girls nowadays have more expectation. At least a stable job or business, car & house etc. Even not looking for marriage purpose, but at least can show off. Some of my friends (girl) even want to look for ang mo (white man) better than local. They will try for migration marriage. Some did it but some not. They wil have a thinking like, i already so high post with so high salary my bf should be earn more than me otherwise how am i secure myself. Some of my friends(girls) even every changing cars like changing cloth. Or maybe both (boy & girls) also have their own requirement. Guys look for pretty, young & rich. Who knows? Thats only my 2 sens