I have gone to multiple dates for the past month since I broke up with my boyfriend. But everytime I disclosed to them that I am a doctor, they all backed off. Guys, are you that insecure? I can be book smart but I live my life as you guys too. And most of them think I am too good for them although they make similar salary as mine. And most of them think I have no life outside the hospital. Like, come on

And my ex boyfriend seems to think so too that's why I dumped him.

Enlighten me please. This has been boggling me for quite some time. Yes, I am ready to date again and if the guy is suitable for me then why not. But I am not desperate for bf either. I am just wondering whether this kind of problem will bother me again when I am ready for another serious relationship

DISCLAIMER: I started this thread looking for guys' opinions. Nothing more than that

And TS still refused to reply to this

I myself shunned members of my immediate family due to that, so I know. They may not mean harm, but their holier-than-thou behaviour can turn people off, and I'm not the kind who would bear with people unless they're my paymaster.
+100

TS, hope that I'm not one of the ones u chose to click the "IGNORE" button on. Be humble, and the world would come to u.
I once tried to date a girl.

We used to go to cafes and restaurants with a group of friends. But one day I asked them to go eat at a kopitiam which has a famous Hokkien Mee stall. When we sat down, she asked, "we REALLY eat here ar?". I stopped seeing her ever since.