Jun 12 2016, 09:21 PM
QUOTE(alexsukri @ Jun 8 2016, 11:06 AM)
I have gone to multiple dates for the past month since I broke up with my boyfriend. But everytime I disclosed to them that I am a doctor, they all backed off. Guys, are you that insecure? I can be book smart but I live my life as you guys too. And most of them think I am too good for them although they make similar salary as mine. And most of them think I have no life outside the hospital. Like, come on
And my ex boyfriend seems to think so too that's why I dumped him.
Enlighten me please. This has been boggling me for quite some time. Yes, I am ready to date again and if the guy is suitable for me then why not. But I am not desperate for bf either. I am just wondering whether this kind of problem will bother me again when I am ready for another serious relationship
DISCLAIMER: I started this thread looking for guys' opinions. Nothing more than that
To begin i can confirm you i'm 100%male of a gender. I believe some men do have problems with the opposite sex tend to be the bread winner in the relationship, from my point of view, your ex is being selfish. His only concern was that he feel inferior to you based on your status. Sadly to say most people still stuck with the mind set that woman can't be superior within the relationship. Another reason would be he feel insecure. Yes! we men do feel insecure not status only but relationship wise. Maybe he was thinking you won't have much time for him and you would develop special relationship within your own professional but its proven many times doctor(female) get married with (mechanic) and live happily, but this is only based on my speculation.And my ex boyfriend seems to think so too that's why I dumped him.
Enlighten me please. This has been boggling me for quite some time. Yes, I am ready to date again and if the guy is suitable for me then why not. But I am not desperate for bf either. I am just wondering whether this kind of problem will bother me again when I am ready for another serious relationship
DISCLAIMER: I started this thread looking for guys' opinions. Nothing more than that
I think there are men out there, who would look past these status of life and would love you for who you're. Trust me i know. Just try your best and keep searching for it. Just don't rush jumping into their love boat, try to get to know the person beforehand.
This post has been edited by JapanKid89: Jun 12 2016, 09:23 PM
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