If i am one of those members, kudos to you. The insecurities is not on the guys. It is on You.

*i Know you can't read this... but this is for the other readers.
It is clear to me that you only want to see things going your way, comments that agreed on you but not against you.
No one can help someone who is incapable to take even an ounce of criticism.
You can go around blaming all the guys and the more preferred bimbo girls for your downfall, yet the biggest problem is yourself.
Perhaps the reason of making such topic is to make yourself sound better and to gain recognition.
and finally, it is such a shame that you've just represented the very stereotype of "pretty girls with brains"