we usually went out for dinner and had great conversation. One of them was journalist and I really really liked him but when we talked about our lifestyle, he started to back off. I didn't go to club or pub and he went there. He was a great guy but too bad he doesn't like me because he thinks by not sharing similar lifestyle and the fact that someone better might snatch me up, he backed off.

Also, I went out with a great economist. Similar problem as well when it came to lifestyle and my job, he backed off and he doesn't believe that I will keep him for long-term relationship.

All in all, the guys I've been dating so far think that I only want them for short-term relationship and once I find someone better, I will dump them. It makes me wonder whether they are all insecure.