most interesting, sounds all too familiar
i'd like to throw in my 2 cents


2 parties can look at the same thing and come up with 2 different conclusions both true, they can both stand firm on their ground, nobody is wrong, it is just a matter of different "perception" - you might wanna read 7 habits of highly effective people

some other random thoughts, the same thing happens everywhere but of different degree, nothing is "fair" accept this reality

opportunities are most abundant in a chaotic/harsh environment than in a stable and organized environment, if you know what i'm saying