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Put leash to children like animal, Thread edited to be more friendly
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masblurr
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May 14 2016, 01:02 PM
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U sound like very experienced with kids.. can u pls share with me how to handle autism and ADHD children while going to buy groceries? At least I can share ur brilliant idea with other parents who have this kind of children.
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SUSamon_meiz
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May 14 2016, 01:03 PM
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QUOTE(darth5zaft @ May 14 2016, 01:01 PM) in popular saying when a guy open the car door, it's either the car is new or the wife is new. I dont understand What? QUOTE(masblurr @ May 14 2016, 01:02 PM) U sound like very experienced with kids.. can u pls share with me how to handle autism and ADHD children while going to buy groceries? At least I can share ur brilliant idea with other parents who have this kind of children. Hold their hand? Very simple I know some parent who do have autism kids And they dont use any leash This post has been edited by amon_meiz: May 14 2016, 01:04 PM
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gnome
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May 14 2016, 01:06 PM
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Sorry to say i saw this very common in shopping mall around KL
Here in ipoh rarely see people use that backpack thing leash
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SUSamon_meiz
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May 14 2016, 01:08 PM
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QUOTE(gnome @ May 14 2016, 01:06 PM) Sorry to say i saw this very common in shopping mall around KL Here in ipoh rarely see people use that backpack thing leash I know. Lots in kl And i really hate them Cant stand watching kids being treat like animal
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masblurr
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May 14 2016, 01:09 PM
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I don't use too but do u know how hard to hold their hand? At once I have to hold his hand till become blue coz he wanna run to the road with heavy traffic.
I'm still thankful that my son not severe autism but I have seen many with severe ADHD.
Don't just judge becoz not all children are same.
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lylee73
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May 14 2016, 01:10 PM
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Well.
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SUSmemekfalui
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May 14 2016, 01:10 PM
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i thought animal let their offspring roam wild while the mother close by?
but then still easily targeted by predator??
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cyhborg
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May 14 2016, 01:10 PM
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QUOTE(amon_meiz @ May 14 2016, 12:00 PM) Why is it so many distraction? And what are those distraction? If its Facebook or twitter Then that just dumb bullshit yeah it's dumb, i agree. when people put kids in my care, i'm always looking out for them just in case (i'm a paranoid person). but some parents ARE useless when it comes to controlling their kids. using a leash is a lazy way out, but i think it's better than nothing.
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gnome
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May 14 2016, 01:12 PM
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QUOTE(amon_meiz @ May 14 2016, 01:08 PM) I know. Lots in kl And i really hate them Cant stand watching kids being treat like animal Yeah me too My friend with twins pon tak pakai So alasan say for hard to control kids tu imo is a weak one. More like parents want to make their job easy by not having to pay attention to their kids 100%
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airiholic
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May 14 2016, 01:12 PM
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Kidnapping can take place in a split second. I rather have a leash on them than have them kidnapped
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SUSamon_meiz
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May 14 2016, 01:12 PM
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QUOTE(masblurr @ May 14 2016, 01:09 PM) I don't use too but do u know how hard to hold their hand? At once I have to hold his hand till become blue coz he wanna run to the road with heavy traffic. I'm still thankful that my son not severe autism but I have seen many with severe ADHD. Don't just judge becoz not all children are same. I dont know how you hold. But never happen to me Why need to hold so strong? If the kid insisnt on walking. Dukung. Put aside. Tell him not to Make it clear Thats what i always do I understand. There are different kind of children But leash isnt the solution. Not in my opinion QUOTE(lylee73 @ May 14 2016, 01:10 PM) ?
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nothomobutsuper
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May 14 2016, 01:14 PM
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QUOTE(amon_meiz @ May 14 2016, 12:39 PM) What? Culik budak? As if dulu takda? Remember Nur jazlin? Yes. Macam anjing Keselamatan jadah Just another tool to relief parents of their responsibilities So that they can focus on other shit like Facebook This is what I mean by different perspective . bodoh . For me , if I saw that situation , I will think that Its a tool to secure their responsibilities . a security measure . maybe their kids hyperactive, or mybe trauma of kidnappers . kalau nak lepas tanggungjawab , dia ikat kat tiang je . bukan pegang leash tu . Main fon ? So ? Mean human less functional ? Bodo ke ape ? Kan multitasking tu . konfirm main twitter ? Bukan reply mesej make dia ? 1 hand put leash and secure their kid , while push trolley cart , other hand maybe send email use phone ? More functional i guess .Especially single mother or father . Anyway , my 1st daughter pon gila active . but I oppose using leash on my kid . because I can still take care of her . I just pity parent that have to resort using leash . who know what have they gone through before using leash .
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SUSamon_meiz
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May 14 2016, 01:14 PM
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QUOTE(gnome @ May 14 2016, 01:12 PM) Yeah me too My friend with twins pon tak pakai So alasan say for hard to control kids tu imo is a weak one. More like parents want to make their job easy by not having to pay attention to their kids 100% Yes. They just malas give attention Buat pandai Jaga malas QUOTE(airiholic @ May 14 2016, 01:12 PM) Kidnapping can take place in a split second. I rather have a leash on them than have them kidnapped If the kid is near u. Close to u Kidnapping wont take split second. Heck. No kidnapping would even happen If u leave the kid alone. Far away. While u focus on phone Yeah. Kidnapping might do happen in split second Why stop at leash? Why not just tied the kid at some election pole. If he wanna kencing. Can just kangkang n pee Heck. Why stop there. Just leave kid at home. For sure tak kena kidnap
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SUSamon_meiz
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May 14 2016, 01:17 PM
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QUOTE(nothomobutsuper @ May 14 2016, 01:14 PM) This is what I mean by different perspective . bodoh . For me , if I saw that situation , I will think that Its a tool to secure their responsibilities . a security measure . maybe their kids hyperactive, or mybe trauma of kidnappers . kalau nak lepas tanggungjawab , dia ikat kat tiang je . bukan pegang leash tu . Main fon ? So ? Mean human less functional ? Bodo ke ape ? Kan multitasking tu . konfirm main twitter ? Bukan reply mesej make dia ? 1 hand put leash and secure their kid , while push trolley cart , other hand maybe send email use phone ? More functional i guess .Especially single mother or father . Anyway , my 1st daughter pon gila active . but I oppose using leash on my kid . because I can still take care of her . I just pity parent that have to resort using leash . who know what have they gone through before using leash . 1)yes. Relief responsibility Parent responsibility is to watch over their kid. Give attent4 With that leash. They are relief of those responsibility Faham bahlol? 2)yes.less functional People in the past can watch over kid. No problem. People now need tool. Need leash like some animal Hence=less functional 3)playing facebook or twitter isnt multi task Thats getting your priorities wrong "Fuk my kid. I need to post selfie" Thats wrong
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SUSStationMonkey
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May 14 2016, 01:17 PM
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QUOTE(abcde90 @ May 14 2016, 11:17 AM) awat marah sangat Biarla bukan parents dia sebat anak dia pakai leash tuh pun. too quick too judge people la ko nih kenapa tak persoal parents yang take anak pic pakai costume bee lah panda lah topi bear lah etc tu baru betul buat mcm binatang
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ak101ss
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May 14 2016, 01:19 PM
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Good to have leash.. Teach slavery to kids at a young age.. Kek.
People can argue whether leash important or not, but what's true is parents are abusing it and are being even more less attentive to their kids because they know their kids are well, in their leash.
So hey, you can save the child physically, but destroy it spiritually/mentally/psychologically.
What parents should do is do keep them in a leash, if necessary but not completely ignore them during the outing.
This post has been edited by ak101ss: May 14 2016, 01:20 PM
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SUSandrealiew
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May 14 2016, 01:19 PM
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I dont find it wrong oso, even though it might b like leashing an animal. But when ur kid is lost, u will hoped that u leash ur kids instead
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SUSSpecial Agent
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May 14 2016, 01:20 PM
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better than, when go shopping and they play escalator and drop death,..
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SUSamon_meiz
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May 14 2016, 01:20 PM
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QUOTE(StationMonkey @ May 14 2016, 01:17 PM) kenapa tak persoal parents yang take anak pic pakai costume bee lah panda lah topi bear lah etc tu baru betul buat mcm binatang Because thats costume U dont go calling cosplayer binatang Or kids in talent show binatang This leash is intended. Is created. For animal For some creature that cannot be control because too stupid or too feral Is that how h describe your children? If it is. Leash away
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lylee73
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May 14 2016, 01:21 PM
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Does it explain it? QUOTE Once I arrived home at 8, my parents, Jonas, and Annie were pissed off of me. What the hell had I done to make them pissed off?
"Sally! Look at you! Your car is already damaged! Had you got into any accidents? Did you make any police reports? Why did you involve yourself into such accidents? If you..." my mom started lecturing.
You see, I hate my parents very much. Not just because of that busybody lecture, but they went further than just that. Having to endure the pain of being called a useless bitch as a child really left a scar in me. They really forced me to do things that I don't want to, and they don't even let me chase my dreams at all. And worst of all, I really grew fatter and more hateful towards the society. If I could, I can just scream a slew of profanities at them.
"Sally! Did you listen what she said just now? No wonder why you are slow in growing out your business!" Jonas shouted at me.
"Dad! Why the hell do you need to lecture things at me? I am already 30, not 13! Just let me live the way I want to." I told him.
"Hey, you useless bitch, I am your father, and I can do everything I want to you! So do your mom!" he put his hands on the hips while cursing at me.
"Call me a useless bitch again and I will..."
He slapped me on the face.
"You can just go to hell already. Raising a bitch like you is a waste of time.
You know what? I ******* had enough. Calling a bitch all the time already made me want to kill my parents as much as I want to kill Stilton.
"**** you, mom and dad! You forced my ass to do what I don't want to do and you call yourselves superior over everyone!"
"Who do you think who you are? A superheroine? You are the only one who think we parents are a piece of ****!" my mom, shouted at me.
"From my childhood, you really abused me for no ******* absolute reason! I am not your food to your fantasy and your toy! I was supposed to be your child!"
My dad pushed me hard up to my sofa and then repeatedly punched my abdomen.
"You are a worthless, ungrateful bitch! You are lucky that you don't need to live on streets, you know? But you rebelled because you are an ungrateful bitch!"
"Dad, stop it!" one man was saying. It was Sam!
"Dad, why did you abused Sally? She had done nothing very wrong with you all," Sam asked.
"She is an ungrateful bitch."
"Mom, dad, for years, I really want to tell both of you about something. I had seen her being abused by both of you all just because she was a girl. What was the use of adopting a girl if you all really regard her as an indestructible toy?" he told them.
"Remember, I am your father, and I can do what I want."
Sam just gave a slap to him.
"Dad! Don't you really realize that Sally had really gone maniac these years all because of your abuses to her? She did..."
"Fine! Both of you are not our children already! From today onwards, we will stop talking to each other because both of you never want to follow our rules!" my dad shouted his last words before my "parents" left the house.
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