i think my kid a bit shy so i started looking for classes for him to attend during weekends, he's 1+

but yours go nursery should be ok since have friends?

research first, if really got money can straight move out before MYR devaluates further

only 1, cukup expensive already

that's why i'm busy looking for a school for my kid... don't want him to stay at the nanny too long, bad influence... tv on whole day one

that one berlambak... grown arse kid on stroller leh, deng

not easy also... never thought of that...

yeah, since you will go together with them, you can monitor and they can build confidence also since daddy's just behind

this one parents sure have high hopes one

kacau unker, kids are fun to have, makes the house merrier

i try not to give my kid my phone unless he's moving too much during diaper change...

but i suspect my nanny is letting him play with iphone... cannot be he know where to press my ipad and swipe in the correct direction to enter password

want to piap but no energy is the normal reason...

and now piap also in the guestroom or downstairs... some more its like faster do so can faster sleep

my wife and i need to work so no choice... what's more my wife is earning quite ok, no point stopping... at least both work, we can afford to send the kid to a better school or day care...

you let people take care you cannot have too high expectation lor, its not their child and they are just treating it as a JOB...

try finding a reputable nanny, best is someone recommend one cos at least they use before...

i sent mine to the nanny when he's 3 months old, more than a year already... and now i'm looking for alternatives already...

ya... this thread surprisingly hot

same rant... "sure you don't want another one meh? pity lor alone so boring... some more so cute, make one more la"

say easy machem go toilet vera

parents take care sure got difference one, at least will give some love... but one thing unavoidable is grandparents most of the time will spoil the grandchild, anything they want, they give, no questions asked

my colleagues always complain on this... give them training training, weekday go grandparents house, weekend come back have to start the training all over

memang quickie like you said... no more slowly enjoy foreplay liao

so far you paling hero, 3 kids

welcome to the thread

This post has been edited by kenji1903: May 12 2016, 11:45 AM

ya, same here... we try not to restrict him too much unless he'll like playing with the altar, glass bowls or something...

else, everything he does, we just watch and make sure he don't fall down...

but the house dem messy cos he opens the cabinets, takes out the bottles and puts them on the coffee table

falling down also same as yours, unless he knocks himself real bad, normal one we'll just say "its ok, is it painful?", he gets up looks at me and continues what he's doing

yeah, cos most of the parents now hands on and minimal help, sure will stop at 1 cos when he's 2, life gets easier liao, why want to have another one and turture myself

gotta agree bro, can focus and give the best to one, if have one more sure split the attention, etc, no point lar we think

tried that once, stopped few times then wife said no feel jor, end up fap

i have first child 3 years after marriage... need to accumulate bullets

and word of advice, if you want to go travel, Europe or somewhere far, do it first, else you'll gonna wait at least 4-5 years for that, might never come also

eh how how, kasi teach some kungfu

cos i am the one who attends to the baby at night, she wait until fall asleep

you lucky bastard

we get that a lot... some more my younger bro was having second one already... we still not yet...

but don't care la... just ignore only, cos usually those who ask are distant relatives, meet only once a year