QUOTE(PyOsE @ May 12 2016, 02:47 PM)
Got 2 kids, 1 daughter 6 y.o 1 son 3 y.o...
My wife keep asking me to be gentle with them. I was raised by my strict & fierce father and somehow after become a father myself, i can see i i just same like him! very hard for me to be love and tender to my kids

but off course i love them very much.
any daddy same situation with me?
its not easy to change the upbringing instilled when we were young...
strict and fierce is ok, but you have to make yourself approachable also...
i did the opposite... i listen first, think then blast later... my dad, blast first, no need to listen

but my kid is not talking yet la, but i'll try to understand what he wants and why he does things like that before pissing off