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Depressed, lost in life, When life takes a turn for the worse
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forsale0122
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Apr 3 2016, 08:10 PM
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You are in the same boat as me.. however.. the problem is because you are alone. Try to surround yourself with friends..find a way to come back home. It will help you. I wonder too at times whether taking my life is REALLY the solution, however it is not. No one is better than your ownself. Like you said yourself, you are financially independent..you dont need anyone to take control or be with you all the time, try to socialize more..there are more to life than just one guy.. and ..
P/S : I am a guy.
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forsale0122
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Apr 3 2016, 08:24 PM
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QUOTE(Invisblenot @ Apr 3 2016, 08:16 PM) Hi there, Thank you. I've got friends actually who always try to talk to me. It's just that for some reason, I distanced myself and I don't want to be a burden to them knowing I'm sad myself. Life is definitely more worth it than that one guy though the entire thing has killed me as a person..I used to despise those who choose suicide once and today, I am in that position. Life is definitely a good teacher...I really wish to be back though it's tough...because of me, my family is also sad and when I'm back home, I know they are also going through a tough time due to me...my parents are always sad and they kind of no longer speak much among themself.. Parents always do worry about their kids, that is for sure. But at this stage of your life, you and ONLY YOU are in control of your own life, you can help them by moving on indefinitely, and speaking from my own experience, I surrounded myself with colleagues and occupied myself with work. Trying not to think about it. You sound like a very independent person, occasionally you can tell friends and colleagues about your issues, however over-telling your story might bore them since they and you BOTH know the solution. TIME will HEAL, some will take months, some will take years, but my advice is, taking your life is not the answer.  Companions do really come and go, even friends, that is just part of life, life is tough some say, be strong. You always have lowyat here.
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