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> my friends all avoid me, I think i know why

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post Mar 16 2016, 09:56 PM

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QUOTE(happy_berry @ Mar 16 2016, 09:54 PM)
I only stick to those for practicality purposes. I pretty much distanced myself from a couple of "friends".....Idk..I just don't feel happy and actually feel myself when I'm around them even though I know they are not shitty people. theres so much more but yea....
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youre so lucky, got many ppl like you
maybe you just like to be alone la, some ppl are like that
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post Mar 16 2016, 10:00 PM

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QUOTE(MustyBalls92 @ Mar 16 2016, 09:58 PM)
yea man. But some things, regardless whether personality good or bad, deserve to be hated. eg. bad hygiene etc. If u have stuff lidat den dun complain when ppl dun want to be your friend.
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even if we have good personality, ppl will still dont like us?
i'm so confused worr
cn u pm me what's acceptable and unacceptable ones? sad.gif
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post Mar 16 2016, 10:03 PM

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QUOTE(LittleGhost @ Mar 16 2016, 10:00 PM)
> giving a fuck about friends in uni
> not working your ass off

You stupid cunt.
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why do you say that?
i do care about my unhappiness by not having a friend but at the same time i dont complain about my study coz i can handle them and like it or not, work is work
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post Mar 16 2016, 10:05 PM

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QUOTE(happy_berry @ Mar 16 2016, 10:00 PM)
no one likes me la lol.. i give off stay-away-from-me vibes to ppl  laugh.gif
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no waaay blink.gif
what did you do to make them stay away?
you don't feel lonely sometimes?
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post Mar 16 2016, 10:11 PM

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QUOTE(happy_berry @ Mar 16 2016, 10:08 PM)
im mysterious lets just say that. id rather deal with my loneliness than forcing myself to be with people who make me feel insecure and useless piece of shit. Life is better for them when im not around.
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hmmm I see sad.gif

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post Mar 16 2016, 10:14 PM

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QUOTE(94brian @ Mar 16 2016, 10:10 PM)
u sound like that 'ah boy to man' that nerd always 'geh kiang' wan to be number 1.
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lol lol i dun want to b number 1 laa, just want to get degree and make my parents proud. I dun use ptptn, my parents work hard to pay my tuition fee, so i have to really work hard lor
I just hope i can achieve my dream, that is all

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post Mar 16 2016, 10:15 PM

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QUOTE(Hensem @ Mar 16 2016, 10:14 PM)
You are annoying
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ya, my friends are all agree with you smile.gif
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post Mar 16 2016, 10:27 PM

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QUOTE(vivakarna @ Mar 16 2016, 10:25 PM)
dont jump 14th floor ya ts..imagine all the pusseh u can get with ur determination.
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i actually wanna do that, honestly
not seeking attention, but everyday i struggle to find reason to live and reason to die
more reason to die than reason to live, is very painful sad.gif
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post Mar 16 2016, 10:32 PM

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QUOTE(Vinci777 @ Mar 16 2016, 10:28 PM)
Ppl go uni wan enjoy student life u go and bug them with your mlm kind of story no wonder pipul dun wan fren u lar

Wan help ppl do something make yrself success and work through yr dream first den only advice ppl lar dont just advice advice advice like tok cok sing song only
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i said the things I've really been thru for example changing myself from being shy to no more being shy,
to me its a big success, even 3 yrs ago i can never imagine myself out there doing sales and score thousands of ringgit per day, but i did it now

so is it wrong for me to share my joy to others?
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post Mar 16 2016, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(hootiedoo @ Mar 16 2016, 11:02 PM)
How u know u r annoying? They go and say to your face meh? How you know they want to avoid you? they say it to your face meh? How you know you talk like old man? They say it to your face meh?

If you think u r like this, u r ! So stop being so low confidence. Low confidence is not attractive. Also do not be too desperate for friends, you will scare them away. So be in the middle.
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ya lorr, they said it straight to me, and they are serious aabt it cause i think they hate me that much

i think la, i talk like old ppl, cause why else they would say im annoying, many young ppl dun like old ppl cause they like to give advice ma
actually i like old ppl cause their advice is very sincere and they usually have good intention in scolding me biggrin.gif i just dun know why many of my friends hate old lecturer cause they are annoying when they all want the best for us

ya la, i am too long no friends ady, i think i have to stop being so desperado
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post Mar 16 2016, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(win7 @ Mar 16 2016, 11:05 PM)
Xiamen uni got prc hot chick offer masat serbis yo!
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xiamen is very new, sure no student has any kind of problem biggrin.gif
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post Mar 17 2016, 11:21 AM

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QUOTE(BudakHingus @ Mar 16 2016, 11:32 PM)
I got a piece of advice, got it from a book I read called "How to talk to Anyone?" by Leil Lowndes. If your problem is with conversation, listen well. If not, still listen well.

When you are having a conversation with a person, make the person talk more than you do.

People like to talk about themselves and have someone to LISTEN and engage in their problems. And then, whatever your response will be, make your response lead to another conversation.

The only way to make sure the conversation continues is to give fucuk and give your full attention to the person. Use the info you LISTENED in your next response.

TLDR; Be a listener in conversations
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that is interesting, human basically has some selfish element in each n everone la, so i think that could work if i listen more
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post Mar 17 2016, 11:22 AM

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QUOTE(MishimaZ @ Mar 16 2016, 11:40 PM)
Because friends are developed by going through ups and downs together. If you keep telling them as if you had experienced shit and this and expect for things to work like some faggot TVB romantic drama you will likely not get the results you expected.

Try taking them to do drugs, cheong raw, smook weed, snatch bags and do arson.... You will surely have many friends.
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first line is good rclxms.gif
then the third one..whaaat
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post Mar 17 2016, 11:24 AM

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QUOTE(CyberSetan @ Mar 16 2016, 11:43 PM)
If ppl run away from you. For sure you are the problem. (Annoying + maybe face problem also)

Go change university now.
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yaa i know im the problem here sad.gif
but it's hard to change bcause with experience i know that i'm doing whats best for others n me, but still they dont look at it the same as me. they might think i talk like old ppl, like lecturer talk so they dun want to get close to ppl likedat bcause they also hate lecturer ma
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post Mar 17 2016, 11:26 AM

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QUOTE(mekboyz @ Mar 17 2016, 11:23 AM)
Ktar or utar
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lol lol go to last pages u will know rclxms.gif

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