i was annoying and whinney too .. always asking for help here and there.. eventually i got pissed off at something.. not because no one helped.. but because someone annoyed me with their lame a$$ comments.. so? i left Loth at lv 62 and lvled all the way to lvl 7 without any help from Loth.. i didnt do any BC instances besides ramparts until i hit 70.. and after that the first instace i did was arcatraz ha.. i was superbly undergeared.. but i still managed somehow..
Loth just started raiding kara when i hit 70.. i was determined to get a spot.. so i pugged KoT instances 3-4 times everyday until i got the rep to get my first epic dagger "riftmaker" and farmed enough gold to buy my Scryer rep and the "retainer blade".. finally got a chance to go into kara! my first boss was moroes.. and we downed him.. and i got the "emerald ripper"

lol my one month of time trying to get riftmaker replaced in 10 minutes =p
so yeah.. i worked my way up with Loth in Kara.. spending everyday of my gametime farming for mats and gold to buy better enchants for my gears and not to mention gold for repair bills. as i only have that much time to play.. i hard have time to help lowbies with their things.. cuz firstly i play to enjoy the game, MY GAME.. i dont think its compulsory for me to use MY GAMETIME aka MY MONEY to help someone get his things done.. while i sacrifice MY GAMETIME aka MY MONEY which i can use to do my own things for my own use for the next upcoming raids
see.. even now.. though i'm one of the top rogues in Loth. because of my work conditiosn and my RL, my aid spot has been given to other rogues.. and QQ at endon for hogging all the rogue lewt for himself.. so wat? i dont blame anyone .. and i dont blame myself.. RL > WoW for me.. yes i'm disappointed i cant get to join them and raid and progress thru SSC now.. but i still can login.. and have different goals in WoW now.. i'm moving towards getting all my PVP and Arena gears since i cant raid.. doing dailies for money.. helping out the newer batches of kara groups.. so if u ask nicely.. i'll think about helping u.. u see? u have to think.. wat do I get by helping u lowbies? nothing.. just time wasted and money wasted.. its just the same.. when u hit 70.. u'll be just like us.. ugh i wanna raid.. i wanna farm.. i wanna arena.. i want this i want that.. do u think u'd wanna help lowbies with their things? i doubt it.. maybe if its just those lil one quest thing.. but if its an instance, u'll be like heck no.. i've been helping lowbies with their quests and instances even b4 i hit 70.. and wat do i get from it? nothing? but i'm not complaining.. at least i can see where they are now..
so advise for u lowbies out there.. if u cant get a group.. jus do quests..instances isnt everything.. yes u get some kewl blues for ur level so wat? u replace them in a day or 2 depending how much u play a day.. but in the end it still gets replaced..
Loth is a malaysian/sg guild.. a big percentage of us are.. so its natural that we talk our own language/slang, we cant accomodate to everyone.. imagine if u joined a pinoy guild.. i'm sure 90% of the time they will be talking in tagalog.. so? wat are u gonna do? " SPEAK ENGLISH U DAMN PINOYS! " and get a /gkick lol.. come on