Dear married man,ladies,daikam cheh and sifus,

i have query on a chinese wedding ceremony. i am running out of idea.
First of all this is hokkien tradition unlike others like cantonese,teochew,hakka etc..

1) When the eldest siblings marry, are they require to buy shoe for the youngest son{still single}? or is it just the younger or youngest buy for the eldest?
2) Does the groom require to to buy shoe for the youngest brother of bride? (bride is the eldest in the family).
-as far as i know groom do not buy shoe for bride and it is dealt with the bride side.

need advice from fellow married man and ladies.

This post has been edited by LS Trading: Mar 4 2016, 09:20 AM

Seriously, if you want a happy wedding and a happy life after the wedding, screw all those nonsense tradition and those over demanding request.

Don't do all the 'tradition' and start fighting, when those tradition actually is to serve the purpose of giving blessing. It is just contradicting.

And Hokkiens are the worst.

hmm i m hokkien, but never heard all of these neither myself or from my friends.

if no elder voice out or request anything related to custom, just forget about it.

i have found out the answer that groom have to pay for either her elder brother or younger brother. thank you for the responses. ^^ appreciate it.