my husband give dowry 5K
but all table and angpow we settle. so no give what table what table so touble some. we have separerate wedding as well, parent 1 cent also no keluar.. we settle ourself.. becoz if this, we got to control the table and guest list..



so do you guys think i should give 25k or just follow market rate if they want to hled separately?
<-- if u pay them 25K and they hold separately.. stated firm that the restaurant they hold will not be cover by u dy.. the angpow will be your not them parent.

but if u rich and u dont mind to give out the 25K then go ahead pass the angpow back to the bride side.. ( total loss)

remember: As long as u and ur wife not suffer after wedding due to financial then is ok. but if u think this is too much then u need to stay firm on your decision. As your wife to do the talking for the bride side..

This post has been edited by yahiko: Mar 3 2016, 10:36 AM