Congratulation, TS.
but bear in mind, be cautious, don't assume it is settled. not until your actual day because anything can happen until the actual day.
once u pass the actual day(actual day ceremony tea session,not guodailai) bringing liquor and fruits over. nothing happen.then it's fine.
because there is where all the relative is there and mouth,words is the strongest weapon. aunties,relative will talk and give alot of unecessary opinion.
example my friend. on actually day he brought wine to lady's house as agreed.one of the auntie mention, 'walao eh, wine owh...your daughter got so cheap like wine or not? i also can buy wine for u la. must at least liquor. don't give chivas or black label. this kind of liquor is hakyee liquor."..my friend straight no face.
the worst part is after hengdai play jimui game
relative all guard at door.dont let him enter house.
u want come in, go buy liquor.so no choice. one of his friend coincidentally got liquor at home, brought for him. the whole ceremony was on hold.
then auntie stand there with her mother and relative said, "want to get bride. where got so easy? if so easy, then bride no value".
i am not saying this to scare you. but we as guy, we ready until the very last minute.many other things example chinese custom, we are still not really familiar.
although we are familiar. there will be someone saying something on that day.
as of now, u are 33.33% settled.
congratulation, bro.
Is true..sometimes ppl around us may have some last minute decision that give you a shock.
During my wedding, my father-in-law borrow his cousin's car. But right after the morning wedding ceremony (bride received into groom's home). My father-in-law immediately return the car. That uncle was shock coz ppl already expected that a wedding car will be use for whole day and he don't mind. But my father-in-law insisted. And that time, we travel bk hometown using my Kelisa. Since wedding car already returned... end up my Kelisa is parked at the wedding car parking infront of the restaurant
... looks a bit odd. But the worst part happen is .. after the event, I directly head home without changing. I hardly sit straight with my belly-tight and huge gown. Hence, kena lie down in the car from restaurant bk home.. yucky..
If we know such stupid thing will happen, might as well pay a bit more and rent car from the wedding studio.. instead of let my father-in-law borrow car.
Mar 8 2016, 12:14 PM
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