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quebix
post Nov 9 2017, 10:33 AM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Nov 9 2017, 09:39 AM)
yeah i think so. i dunno if they get bored or what. hahah. used to make 150ml... baby only drink 50ml. the rest throw. so sad. LOL. but after a while, he got better.
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understand ur concern.

my baby's formula is about to finish, and i was thinking either to buy a new one or not.
his formula is not cheap, so i dont wanna waste.

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post Nov 9 2017, 10:58 AM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Nov 9 2017, 10:54 AM)
you mean buy same brand or not buy it at all?

if your waifu got enough milk, then no need buy lah. just pump and freeze. and then heat up when required. breast milk if the baby doesnt finish can still keep a while and feed later because it has antibodies that fight bacteria. not like formula. formula once drink once have to throw out.
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she has enough milk? maybe. but i pity her, it can be sore and painful.

and with breast milk the frequency of feeding is higher.
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post Nov 9 2017, 11:03 AM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Nov 9 2017, 11:00 AM)
yeah loh. for my wife, she pump milk every 2 hours that time. but at night she can sleep and i will heat up BM or make formula for baby. pumping is better for some ladies as no biting lol and also they can sorta not worry about dropping baby. as sometimes will fall asleep.
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usually the baby will take breastfeeding milk daytime, and night time, especially before sleep will take formula as that is more filling and usually get more milk.
so will sleep until morning/ or only need to wake up once for feeding (formula) and then continue sleeping.

right now he drinks more breast milk, and even at night drink breast milk, so the wife need to wake up every few hours.

we are using quite an expensive formula, so im worried if i buy a new pack, it will go to waste.
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post Nov 10 2017, 11:50 AM

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QUOTE(qse150 @ Nov 10 2017, 10:50 AM)
for sure it will fail. changes had to be done slowly and progressively. baby wont be able to accept sudden changes.
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i see that enfalac step 1 is from 1 month to 12 months
step to is 6 months to 12 months
step 3 is 12 months to 3 years old.

so should i just use step 1 and then skip step 2 and straight to step 3?
is that OK?

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post Nov 10 2017, 11:51 AM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Nov 9 2017, 11:00 AM)
yeah loh. for my wife, she pump milk every 2 hours that time. but at night she can sleep and i will heat up BM or make formula for baby. pumping is better for some ladies as no biting lol and also they can sorta not worry about dropping baby. as sometimes will fall asleep.
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QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 9 2017, 11:03 AM)
usually the baby will take breastfeeding milk daytime, and night time, especially before sleep will take formula as that is more filling and usually get more milk.
so will sleep until morning/ or only need to wake up once for feeding (formula) and then continue sleeping.

right now he drinks more breast milk, and even at night drink breast milk, so the wife need to wake up every few hours.

we are using quite an expensive formula, so im worried if i buy a new pack, it will go to waste.
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just bought the formula yesterday.
hope it wont go to waste.

my wife tried pumping some milk and then bottle fed the breast milk.
my baby didnt like it as well.

i guess its the bottle.


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post Nov 10 2017, 12:09 PM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Nov 10 2017, 12:01 PM)
yup. i also skipped step 2. i think step 1 has better nutrients, if not mistaken step 1 also more pricey thoguh.
oh. then maybe try change the bottle nipple. i think they are Newborn, 1-3 months, 6 months. 9 months+ or something liek that. so maybe baby feel too slow or too fast flow and feel uncomfortable. what brand you using? i  using the philips avent i can say quality is damn good.
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using philips avent, still the 0 months teat ( 1 hole )
when change to 1 months teat (with 2 holes) he doesnt like it. keep refusing it.

now at 3 months still giving the 1 hole teat, tried occasionally the 2 holes teat but he doesnt like it.


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post Nov 11 2017, 06:06 PM

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QUOTE(qse150 @ Nov 10 2017, 05:32 PM)
should be okie but had to mix step1 and step3. At first more on step 1 and gradually reducing step 1 and increasing step 3.
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thanks, wud keep that in mind
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post Nov 27 2017, 09:58 AM

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guys, my baby is around 4.5 months old.
starting around 3.5 months till now, my baby has started to drink bit by bit.

usually he would take 3 to 4 oz per feeding.

now its like, 0.5 to 1oz per feeding, and always squirming around when we feed him.

he will cry like normal when hungry, then when we feed him, he will drink for a few seconds before crying and squirming again for a few seconds, then back to drinking normally.

i dont think its the formula, or the bottle, because he reacts more or less the same with breastfeeding.
but breastfeeding more success, less crying and squirming.

tried to put breast milk in bottle, same effect of crying and squirming.

what could be the problem?
issit just a phase he is going thru?
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post Nov 27 2017, 10:24 AM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Nov 27 2017, 10:17 AM)
maybe got lots of angin? do you put any oils or give massage? minyak telon is quite effective. put on body and feet. to release angin.
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we always put minyak kayu putih.
sometimes give him Gripe Water.


if sakit perut/bloated, should be everyday for the past 1 month?

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post Nov 27 2017, 10:35 AM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Nov 27 2017, 10:27 AM)
oh if use all those then dunno leh. yeah. if kid is prone to angin, sure will last long time. maybe try urut perut first before feeding to see if it helps? can youtube massage technique.
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oh yeah, massage also we did.
everyday also.
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post Nov 27 2017, 11:38 AM

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QUOTE(Keatsan @ Nov 27 2017, 11:36 AM)
When my son has windy tummy, I tend to use bicycle method to move his legs gently in a circular cycling motion.

He'll fart sometimes during the short exercise.

Usually we will pat his back after drinking milk. Around 5 minutes until we can hear or feel the burp from his mouth.
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this is not the problem.
anyway, for bloated and wind, we will use woodwards gripe water, bicycle legs, massage etc. so i dont think thats the problem.

my problem is this :

QUOTE(quebix @ Nov 27 2017, 09:58 AM)
guys, my baby is around 4.5 months old.
starting around 3.5 months till now, my baby has started to drink bit by bit.

usually he would take 3 to 4 oz per feeding.

now its like, 0.5 to 1oz per feeding, and always squirming around when we feed him.

he will cry like normal when hungry, then when we feed him, he will drink for a few seconds before crying and squirming again for a few seconds, then back to drinking normally.

i dont think its the formula, or the bottle, because he reacts more or less the same with breastfeeding.
but breastfeeding more success, less crying and squirming.

tried to put breast milk in bottle, same effect of crying and squirming.

what could be the problem?
issit just a phase he is going thru?
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post Nov 27 2017, 12:01 PM

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QUOTE(Keatsan @ Nov 27 2017, 11:48 AM)
Ah, that struggle. For my experience before, my son had a lil discomfort on his tummy. Hence he couldn't drink milk comfortably.  rclxub.gif

So we went to Chinese Medical shop and bought this. After using this on his tummy, an hour later back to normal drinking mood.  rclxm9.gif

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thanks, will give it a try.
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post Nov 28 2017, 12:49 PM

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QUOTE(nazeri03 @ Nov 28 2017, 12:47 PM)
maybe due to nipple confusing from breastfeeding to bottle feeding..
u can try change the teat...
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i thought so too. but never had a problem before.
since newborn have been having both teat and tits.


anyway, any recommended teat?
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post Jan 17 2018, 12:35 PM

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QUOTE(VinluV @ Dec 14 2017, 08:35 AM)
Tried before. She doesnt show hunger signs and interest in milk if we feed 2 hour or 3hour.

Also shouldnt the interval between feed drag longer as baby grow?
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yes as baby grows, the intervals between feeding should be longer as their stomach can hold more.

this is the majority.

but sometimes we do have babies that still need constant feeding.



my boy, now 6 months have been drinking milk at good intervals, last time was around 4 to 5oz per feeding, and its like each oz will last for one hour.
so 4 oz means 4 hours.
night time usually only wake up once and then sleep back.

but around 4 months he started to drink more breastmilk, and more frequent. every 2 to 3 hours.
its also more to comfort sucking.
night time still same, wake up once only.

now at 6 months, feedings are more frequent, even at night until morning.
mummy cant sleep much.
i think this is due to teething.
teething symptoms. more frequeent sucking, wake up more frequent at night, biting into everything etc.


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post Sep 8 2018, 08:46 AM

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QUOTE(Dreadnought @ Aug 22 2018, 01:53 AM)
Caesarean at Thomson Damansara - RM12K. Just became a dad.
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congrats!

you must feel lighter and easier now.

at least lighter by 12K!
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post Mar 14 2022, 08:56 PM

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Hi fathers (and soon to be fathers)!!
What do u think about covid vaccination for kids? Im ok with adult vaccination, but im worried about kids as not much info around.
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post Mar 15 2022, 10:18 AM

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QUOTE(yoonyin_V2 @ Mar 15 2022, 10:11 AM)
Just take the jab, my 6 yo kid already taken the jab 2 weeks ago and she is the very last of few in her school. Teacher in kindergarten told us her classmate 90% already taken the jab. Next appointment appear in MySJ for 2nd dose is in April.

Just walk in to your nearest PPV center to take the jab. Quite numbers of kid in the PPV center while we take our kid there.
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any side effects to be expected?
fever, sore arms etc?

my son not of age yet. he will be 5 in a few months.


 

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