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hi there,

i roughly have the same experience as you. your situation is almost 90% similar to mine, except that my wife is not as severe as yours.

however, do you know the real reason why your wife behave as such? most probably not your lack of effort.

as for my wife, it was mostly due to tiredness from lack of sleep (my boy clings on her at night) and also lack of self confidence due to body (she slim back to ori shape but was unhappy with her scar).

anyhow brother, stay strong bcz i totally know how you felt because i been thru the same phase and my son is now 1.5 years old.

try get someone who can talk to her and see what is her real concern..

i see all u guys are trying to give him the "usual" advices on managing relationship but i think i know how hydroboy feels..

it's not like he lacks effort or what.. sometimes is really just the wife part... the normal things wont work anymore.. sth is holding her back.. unless he/we figure out what is holding her, everything he/we do will not work..

that's y i kinda know how he felt, bcz my situation is the same, but not as severe as his wife.. his wife now is more like total denial and rejection.. no matter how many good things u do or effort u put, to her, it doesn't solve the problem..

yes, probably deep inside her she might realise and appreciate what u did... because truth to be told, not all guys can do the same.. i have seen many families where the husband just couldn't be bothered and let the wife do everything.. but in our situation, we did all we can and in fact, can be said that we did more than what we are expected but that doesn't solve the root cause..

hence, i think... we really need to understand what is she undergoing, psychologically....

morinaga increased since Jan 2021..... zzzz

likewise for everything else... lol

besides u, can anyone else talk to her? does she listen or speak to other ppl? she needs someone that she can talk to now.. obviously not u..

maybe her parents, friends or siblings.. someone that she is willing to open up and tell what's wrong..
then u try to talk to that person and see what can be done..

sometimes, it is just that one particular matter that holds her down..

mamypoko quite affordable for the normal range.

airfit also quite cheap if bought during sales...
and bcz airfit can contain more, sometimes it is cheaper to buy airfit (normal drypers use 2 pcs but airfit only 1 pc)

so far my boy tried from the cheapest pet pet to mamypoko airfit also no problem..
closest to airfit i think like genki or huggies green colour also ok

haha now u just new born.... wearing S or M size... wait till you get XL size and your kid drinks like 8oz per meal...

that's where the real pain start..

oh ya.. reddish izit bcz you didn't use suitable cream instead? what brand of nappy cream u using?

oh sudo cream is fine... best bang for buck imo..

then your day care really sux.. that's probably the main reason instead of diaper problem..

i used to be able to get down to RM40/packet for mamypoko but recently the price increased and discount less, the last round i bought on 3.3 average is RM42/packet after discount..

and yes, beware of fungal infection. my son has it but is at the leg area not private part luckily.

we all also young parent la... unless u r <20y/o....

why u wait outside? why not go inside?

anyway, congrats!

i see.. if everything is alright, most likely can discharge the next 2 days..

then your "nightmare" will begin..
but so far i have been enjoying every moment la... now he is 18 months old d

how about his solid intake?

mine also 1.5 y/o but 12kg now