Hi All,

I am unsure whether to post this in Girl's Club or Cupid Corner or Serious Kopitiam, but decided to post it here to get more female's serious opinion.
I have sexual urge, i dunno whether it is in normal or high sex drive.

The thing that is bothering me is, i do not know how to release it in a healthy way. I meant since i am small, my religion, background, and surrounding ppl certainly despised ppl who engaged in ONS, or to cincai sleep with any guy. N i do not have a bf. I do not want to find a bf just for sex.

I actually quite in awe of some of my frens who can know some guys, after some time, sleep together. N then move on, and know another guy again, and sleep again, and move on after that. For me, our culture dun encourage such open relationship.

My question is, I need help and advise, on how to control these sexual urge?
I know some will suggest masturbation, i tried b4, but I dun reli enjoy it. I want a guy, but deep down, i know i don't want to with just any guy, because after doing it, i'll cry and look down on myself.

So, i want to read other's female's opinion on how to control own's sexual urge when one is single.
Serious opinion/advise, no troll please.

Fuck buddy is not what i am looking for.
Any opinion or advise from ladies/females?

Close fren? Sometimes i wonder how ppl can get fubu. As in 'hey, wanna have sex?', then do it again and again.
I m not comfortable with the idea of casual sex. I want to know whether is it normal for gals to have casual sex/fubu nowadays?
Isn't it a risk to the body (pregnancy/STD) and etc etc.
Not the dry problem. But i may give this a try.
Masturbating the correct way? Err, got correct or wrong way?
An understanding FUBU? I dunno any, and surely dunno an understanding 1.

I do agree the more i control my urge, it seems to get stronger.
For now, just gotta handle it myself.

I am just reli curious. Is casual sex/fubu really a norm?
For guys, maybe some dun care.
But as gals, there is this discrimination that we should be proper and all that.

Yeah , kinda scary if the fubu develops into a relationship. So unhealthy. From love then sex, but this one opposite. Sex 1st, then love