I have been dating a thai massage girl that I knew from.. Well you know how we met.. It have been going for about 4 months now.
At first I was skeptic about her sincerity but she seems genuinely interested and love me very much.
She knows I don't make much money (which is opposite to what most thai women want in men) and loves me anyway.
I must say the society stigma is not good because of her work, but trust me she only did hj. I knew because i've been long time
customer to that MP and they don't provide more than hj to their customers..

She plans on quiting the job and marry me once I've saved up enough and convince my ultra-conservative family to take her.
Is she worth the wait?
Probably gonna take 3-5 years.

In the meantime I truly enjoy being with her. She may has her temper sometimes, but she is quick to cool down.

Do you think a relationship with women with unorthodox profession will work? Have you had any experience?

i love u loooong time

Wish u best.

Ur life,ur love.

Carry on

a mutual friend of mine left his gf for a thai girl whom he met in ahem place. everything was fine and lovely, she didnt request anything, she paid for some meals, promise to be a loving wife, bring him go back her hometown meet parents. introduce to relatives and friends in thailand.



fast forward a few months, end up cheat all his savings dry and he got personal loan to settle also. enough warning?

Dude jgn kena dupe sudah.. n imagine she kena tebuk by ali ah kau raju tupai monyet etc.

just go for it brah. good luck

drillz ?

lepas tali panjang, pancing ikan besar huh

check betul-betul bawah tu pisang ke kerang

Now TS in love mode, whatever advice you throw to him, he going just ignore cause being blind by that girl charm and love, the only way he will awake is by follow your friend path

This post has been edited by ironmaid89: Dec 29 2015, 10:29 PM

yup. thats the way they do it. mau makan then makan besar besar, dun wan makan ikan kecik

i can evaluate her for you, pm me her name and MP...

This post has been edited by zacx: Dec 29 2015, 10:29 PM

Desa Sri Hartamas ?

ahh so true. thats the exact same situation my mutual friend had. everyone including family member also warn him. but she's good in this la, she act noble and generous at first. even paid for air tickets for him to fly to Thailand.

Haizz...
At the time when I thought I have found my true love... So naive of me.
Yes she did pay for our meal (sometimes I paid half, sometimes all) and she has plan to bring me to Thailand to meet her family.
How old is she?
Because my girl is actually quite old, 30 this year. I guess that happens when you're dating the young one isn't?

Hj only ah? You sure ah? You her green passport!?

up to u... life is your...
for me not wouthy.

how many thai girls wish to run away from thailand?

But.. but your friend must have savings prior to marrying her right?
I mean he probably don't have much, but got quite a lot saving.. So she 'sniffed' that and pretend to love.
Exactly different from me who has no savings at all and only debt
But I did promise her in 3-5 years I will have better jobs, home...

ur story same with my friend...
wait...maybe ur my friend?

they do it not for love,
just for red ic..

just be careful never let her know how much u have in the bank and becareful when u in thailand. better find some friends go with u..

Been giving friendly warning to my apek friend when he started dating prc Amoi.

He dun wan listen n I too dun push too much as he seems to be happy with her. He got marriage prob also la.

Now he want to get rid of her but so susah keep telling me she psycho.

go for it bro

i wish for both of u guys happiness!

why u went to those place at first place? pls explain

old liao sure gaduh 1, so pls dont sorhai.

easy TS

find a friend, take the girl out, offer a large sum of money for piak piak

since she said only do HJ, if she really doesn't care about money, she won't do it anyway

that way, not assuring she won't lie in the future, but at least she passed the money test

Bro... whether she is sincere or not, it would be up to you to decide. Give things a chance and see where it goes to. Thai girls are human too, though her profession is not what you should be proud of.

That's exactly my thought. Mostly want to stay there close with their families.
But she has this one friend, who also a thai woman been married with local chinese for 10 years and has 2 child.
She can comfortably settled down here but that's because she doesn't has any family back in Thailand.
Now the marriage is at the edge because these girl like to go out to drink, didn't care for child and husband is asking for divorce.


She said she needs the money to settle her house, car loan. She isn't planning on doing this forever.

he did have savings, but i duno how much.. i only know he went for personal loans and credit card cash advance to help her 'family who was very sick and need to do operation'. lol

u dun have savings, but u have salary. salary = personal loan. just rmber our chat here 1 day if she request any form of 'help'.

and also, if they're older they become more desperate. they might not want your money, they want to marry u to legally stay in Malaysia.

Ai ai ai ai aiyo.....

Don't worry about what other people think.

If it works for you, YES, IT WORKS. You can tell other people to get lost.

Rule no 1 of cheong : never ever date the girl or serious about relationship. How the fuck u know she only did hj to ALL customer. Okay, maybe don have, or really have. Not important liao.

You are blind now. Jz use your sense in every step u take now.

Ts do u know all those MP always said the same thing over & over again to their beloved customer....

I kena, my neighbour kena

My friend kena, his friend neighbour kena

Kolek kena, cousin kena even uncle also kena

Dun be sohchai

whatever goats your float bruh

upcar , ding ding dong already

kesian TS....never heard of take away or outcall service....can nego with girl and do the deed outside in nearby hotel, customer's car or customer's home

biz is tough n highly competitive even beween masaj lady....some masaj lady offer bj + hj allow cim to keep customers coming back n not follow other masaj lady....

Nope

Dont do it

Better safe than sorry

No local amois for you to choose sampai sangap for mp amoi?

So your friend was 'duped' by this? Why would they want to stay in Malaysia far from friends and family?
Even if she did marry me someday, she won't get 'blue' ic. Just the red ic. and it need to be renewed every 10 years.

And one more she has been sick for about a month and every few days seeing a chinese acupuncture doctor. (despite my advise to go to a hospital).
The cost for the treatment is not cheap, one session sometimes 100++ and she never asks me for money.
She pays with the proceed she got from 'tips' and salary as masseuse. I wish to help her but I also don't have that much money.
She understand me that sometimes she even pay for our meal...

Thanks. That's quite positive vibe you got there.
IMHO all marriage and relationship will have its problem.
Like your local amoi won't give you headache and cheat money out of you

Just sharing my buddy's experience...went massage, got hooked to a thai girl, as usual she treat him nice this n that, bought gifts from thailand for him, met with her parents, after a few months she told him her family back home got financial issue need money, dun know exact amount but its 5 figures, fast forward she dissapeared with the money

Just telling u to keep an eye open for this kinda things, the moment u sense something not right, think with ur big head not ur small head

This post has been edited by lorrydriverrocks: Dec 29 2015, 10:53 PM

what she does is just a mere choice of career. What's so wrong with it haha

Dafak?

that only happens to 'loaded' person right?
As for me I don't have much.. only car perodua no home no savings...
not even bonus this year...

555555

Good luck

no money for now 'tak apa' later she'll make you 'hutang keliling pinggang' then you know.
you are her 2nd job other than her main job in MP. she is really a good girl heeding our 3.85 minister advice for a 2nd job.

not all are bad... but still dont go blindly

my fren ain't loaded
if things work out for u then great but keep an eye out
don't go borrow money from ah long or take personal loan when she start asking for $$

once in a while /k here really give sincere advice, in the end is all up to you to adhere or not.
losing all the moneys that is not belong to you is worse than losing your own saving, i guess you never have that experience before.

This post has been edited by quintesson: Dec 30 2015, 12:36 AM

U are half blinded U may not be her only 'bf' too

How much for HJ + BBBJ?
I wanna try

your song

drillz pls

She wants citizenship first and then divorce?

TS really CGPA 3.85, asking such question in /k meaning you already have the doubt in mind.

People with kind hearted and down to earth like you are those who easy to con.

Like other people commented, doesnt mean you got no money now then she cant cheat you.

insaplah ts

if she made u happy, why not? life is short, man!

dont let too many bad comments affected u...

dont over suspicious, it will kills yr relationship

what ever decisions u plan to make, make sure u will be happy with the final outcome

ya go marry her...but say to her u can never take any of ur wealth..do it in writing such as agreement...then?...wallaa go and dive in..

This post has been edited by sangtupperware: Dec 29 2015, 11:53 PM

They only have 1 goal when they come here. To make money. As simple as that. Their family (back home) is always number 1.

Don't be stupid son.

bodo TS..

high chance you will get burned

hook, line and sinker

You will feel different when you wake up one fine morning due to burning sensation down there...

At this point, not need to advice TS, just eat popcorn and wait the story develop in few month, i guess TS going be like you friend, need to awake and learn the lesson the hard way which mean maybe lost all his saving and in debt. hope he will open another thread in /k/ by then

This post has been edited by ironmaid89: Dec 30 2015, 12:02 AM

congrats bero pm MP no pls

your life no other female meh?

nono zone for me

As gf or mistress still ok,as wife...a big no way
Btw how old are you?

This post has been edited by Gwesukaseken: Dec 30 2015, 12:12 AM

yeah, maybe offer HJ only but i heard up to how you sweet talk...if urs is really good, then good for you. as some of them has CFM look. maybe just want citizenship. after marry kerja apa?

Its all about the money money money...

A women can see right through a man and what he can provide without him knowing.

Dont be blind. She spend on you is called investment. You are her golden ticket out of a hard life. Once she use you as carpet she will throw you away.

Find someone better. Have some standards. By standards I don't mean non-hooker. Find someone who has a proper job, proper education and proper access to citizenship or is comfortable in their own citizenship. In short, find someone who does not have major money skeletons in their closet or can make use of you for the time being.

Don't because of your anaconda you lose your money, time and heart.

Lol, only HJ. Show them 600+meal+4 star hotel 99% they will follow u back doing FJ until tomorrow. How i know?from experience

This post has been edited by crash123: Dec 30 2015, 12:17 AM

must put on a good show for you to take the bait.

happy ending for the rest of your life

4 star only ah? give la 5 stars....at least they do overnight with you

There r not to many different on 4 star and 5 star. Total amenities effects the hotel rating, i have stay at 5 star hotel below 600 and 4 star hotel at around 900 IIRC

true, but if you kena jedi mind trick liao, you might end up taking loan since you got salary.

just be wary.
be on guard.

small brother thinking...apa2 also can happen

i lel at the replies

just dont kena tipu and end up spending everything on her: savings la, house la, car la... all put under TS name so when the girl cabut she doesnt own your assets.

I wouldn't even want my GF giving HJ to anyone.
Much less horny strangers.

But well, that's me.
I'm curious to find out what will happen after a few months.

Kesian kau Raju, penat mak ayah ko sekolahkan kau tapi otak letak kat kaki

show the face
maybe she do service to me b4
b2b?　ｃａｔｂａｔｈ？

TS kena kong tao liao...quick go and find master to break curse.

How you both communicate wor?

Please no lah... ada udang sebalik kfc...

BTW... marry her... mean marry her family too...

if marry JAV star, /k approve?

Massage girl ?
Did u mean masseuse ?

Surely you don't call a pilot " the aircraft man" right?



Not to mention that he's ignoring the red flag (temper) and attempts to convince himself and justify it (cool down fast)

Far away from family? It's a short flight away.
And it's to venture into greener pastures.

Wouldn't you wanna marry an Australian/ American/ British girl and get out of this country ? I'm sure many Malaysians would.

The grass is always greener on the other side

No money now doesn't mean no money in future right??
U plan to not have money forever?

Furthermore, they'll just squeeze u later.

If her mother is "suddenly sick" and needs money, how are u going to say no?

Win

In the next few months, thread starter using different name open new thread:

Dupe by Thai girlfriend, please advice

This post has been edited by damnself: Dec 30 2015, 02:46 AM

Which Mp? Which no. Gal? What name?

I go there to help u testify / analyze her

Then i will know this gal worth or not

See she will offer bbbj/fj anot, if yes u can dump

PM me

We are now 4 months already. Yeah things has its up and down, but what relationship doesnt?
Afterall thailand woman is also a human being. They also need affection, someone to settled with.

Beggar can't really be a chooser

23, turning 24 soon.
i'm an honorable man. once I married, i won't commit adultery. so mistress is out of the question.

i've seen many comments here said she just wanna marry me for citizenship. but truth is how many of you like it in the other countries?
she already have home, car back in her country and her families and relatives are all there. why would she want to live here all alone without her families (and me) if she only duped me for marriage. with her age turning to 30 soon, she would be having hard time finding new husband.

Like your local amoi or awek is so saint.. how many of them doing fl behind your back? if you didn't know it then she probably very good in keeping it discreet

Friend abah kau lah

She's quite the low maintenance type. didn't mind expensive clothes, make up.
Anyway noted.. Just don't let her caused me financial trouble in the future is ok.
No nonsense spending, loan for her 'sick' mother...

She can speak english (albeit imperfect). Can also speak mandarin fluently and now learning Bahasa.

That's what I afraid of. Have heard many stories about this.
BTW giving her ridiculous amount of money for her 'sick' mother is absurd, because in Thailand hospital is pretty much like Malaysia
where treatment is partially subsidized by government. But I hope that day won't come lahhh

I LOVE AMERICAN/BRITISH/CANADIAN WOMAN.
Problem is they don't love me
But Thai woman is actually pretty conservative, unlike the west with their feminism, hipster and whatnot stupid movement. They still strictly adhere to the custom and will make good wife.
But one thing that got my heart to say she's the one is she's willing to wait for me 3-5 years until we get married,
unlike some cases where they got married in as early as 2 weeks (before kena con).
If she has ulterior motives, why would she wait 5 years for me? She could have easily find stupider victim that'll take her less than that..


Please don't

dont worry TS, it just HJ.

nurse at hospital also touch old man dick

if she really love u till can stop working at massage.

u bet



nowdays people looks at massage women like shit.

i even talk to em, why u work massage

cant blame em. if i'd born as women, i become massage girl too lol


5 minutes of hj = RM50... easy as fuk... one day 10x X 50 = RM500+ bruhh

haha.. no need to se brain, working in office 8 hours a day.. with peanut wage

but just hope my future sons girl dint work massage girl.. cause im just joking..


do any women wanted for finger job?
i can do that please PM me RM50 per seasion

thank you