Now TS in love mode, whatever advice you throw to him, he going just ignore cause being blind by that girl charm and love, the only way he will awake is by follow your friend path

So your friend was 'duped' by this? Why would they want to stay in Malaysia far from friends and family?
Even if she did marry me someday, she won't get 'blue' ic. Just the red ic. and it need to be renewed every 10 years.

And one more she has been sick for about a month and every few days seeing a chinese acupuncture doctor. (despite my advise to go to a hospital).
The cost for the treatment is not cheap, one session sometimes 100++ and she never asks me for money.
She pays with the proceed she got from 'tips' and salary as masseuse. I wish to help her but I also don't have that much money.
She understand me that sometimes she even pay for our meal...

that only happens to 'loaded' person right?
As for me I don't have much.. only car perodua no home no savings...
not even bonus this year...