thinking that it's safer if u have sex after marriage..for me it's your privacy if u wanting sex before marriage..but then,dont start to ignore the responsibility if u have baby before you're married coz of your sex..pity the baby..n to gals,it's painful to have abortion..(sorry if my word doesnt spell right n dont get me wrong,i never had it..hehehe)

yet it's really important to make your relationship much closer and happier..