I totally agree with you. I've been with my bf for 5 years, we both love each other and we both love to have sex. There's no reason not to do both. Communication is the most important thing. Be open to each other, do tell the things you like to do or thing you don't to your partner. Be honest. My bf loves me not because of sex, but he loves me for who I am. He never push me in anyway.He respect my decision. I am very lucky to him...