sex is 2 person thing ... i tink they should go for a sex therapist .. or better discuss about this .. the gurl must tel the guy how she feel and how she wanted to be touch n ...... and the guy must be willing to listen and learn ,coz sometime men r just a lil bit impatient ;p and what they saw in the XXXX Filem dosent really can pakai in reall ife .. and some woman can be a lil bit sensatif and plz take not not all woman can be openltp herself and enjoy sex ., ... they 2 should be open about this since they r planning to get married..