Well Sex... I prefer to call it Love Making... is a very important part in early stage of marriage... a couple should really enjoy it together... communicate with each other... sharing each other and fulfilling each other needs. The bonding will grow much stronger through these intimate activities.

But if your friend really dislike having sex and not enjoying it... after talking out to the guy and still being ignored... then she seriously have to reconsider about it. The guy is really not sensitive enough and does not really look upon your friend as a peer/partner.

Better sit down and get the terms right before marriage, gals have equal rights and equal say too...